Oral sex ?

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  1. Dannie

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    Like to no if any guys have trouble in cumming during oral sex, any ideas on that problem .
     
  2. Thorn

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    Yes. I have lately because I tend to worry that she will get tired of trying and it might take as long as 20 to 30 minutes of sucking for me to cum. So I stop her and let the blow job be part of our foreplay. We've talked about it and are going to both try it soon and plan not to quit after a few minutes.
     
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    From my perspective, I needed to rethink my technique to get him to cum before my mouth got tired. I am very blunt and just came straight out with it one night. I asked him what wasn't happening during oral and why it took a half an hour or more to get him to cum. He said the problem was that there wasn't quite enough emphasis on the actual suction. I used to really try to use a lot of suction going down on him. But he explained that the sensations are far more responsive if I use all of the suction when his cock is pulling out. I guess it was a matter of technique and timing. Silly me! :eyes
     
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    For my boyfriend speed and friction is the key. The sensations from the suction and up and down motion feel very nice but in order to get finish him that way it requires more speed and pressure than I am capable of delivering with just my mouth, so I end up doing a combination blow job and hand job and that does the trick.
     
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    What Puss in boots said. For me it takes the combination of hand and mouth.

    At least it did the last time I had the pleasure, which was a decade ago. *grumbles*
     
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    I have only had one partner (out of around 100) who could effortlessly get me to come by oral, she had a technique of a lot of suction, she used to suck on my fingers and her suction was incredible. Strong suction combined with deep throating (very visual) a bit of hand work: success every time! Her finger-sucking thing was pretty awesome on it's own as well.

    Don't know where or how she learned it, but she certainly learned it good. Actually, she would have made a good porn star (or maybe she had been sometime in the past, she was an amazing woman).
     
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    oral sex is great :D
     
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    With my SO I use a warm up session, I tease the head with my mouth, placing allot of emphasis on it slipping in and out of my lips, I combine that with deep sucking and tickling the head with my tounge when he is deep in my mouth. The thing that does it for him is he can see how much I love sucking his cock.

    When he starts to groan and make thrusting motions with his hips I switch to the hand job/blow job combo. I suck harder and move up and down with my hand. He can usually blow his load in about 5 mintues with a BJ if he knows I want him to. If he knows I want him to fuck me after a BJ then I could go for hald an hour and he won't cum. He has great control.
     
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    For me, deep throating is the key.
     
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    Try a combination handjob and blowjob. Oral on the head and hand on the shaft. I cum fast every time.
     
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    I agree with others on hand and mouth. For me when I want to cum I just straighten my legs and tense up my leg musles and it makes me cum in few minutes.
     
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    it has been taking me some time lately, even up to half an hour. if the girl uses her hand and mouth and a lot of work on the head i can usually cum pretty quickly.
     
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    I have a hard time making my SO cum while I'me giving head only because he's bigger then my mouth. Now there are other men out there that I have successsfully done that for. For my SO I try other means to get him off after sometime of head and if he wants to cum in my mouth then thats ok with me.
     
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    Yes, sometimes coming when I'm getting blown is difficult. Something that helps me is is doing something I like with the girl's body. Like feeling up her curvy butt, or playing around with her pussy.
     
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    My hubby hasn't had any problems not cumming with oral, but a couple things I do that I haven't seen posted yet are - I will rub my thumb along the perineum, softly and work up to rubbing it harder. Also, he likes a nice one finger prostate massage sometimes during oral.

    It also helps if the one giving the blow job is really into it. I love giving head and am very enthusiastic. A little dirty talk and eye contact doesn't hurt either.
     
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