Oral Sex - My Wife Can't Take Too Much

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  1. rman987654321

    rman987654321 New Member

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    This may be an unusual complaint (or maybe not so much complaint as an observation) but sometimes when I'm really into it I feel like I'd like to be going down on my wife for much longer than she likes (or longer then she can take). After 10 ten minutes or so she usually cums 2 or 3 times and says she's too sensitive and wants us to move on to doing something else. Meanwhile, there are times I'd be into doing it for an hour or more.

    I sometimes try taking it very slow and gentle, but that doesn't really change things.

    My impression is that most women wanted their guys to do it longer than their guy wanted to - maybe we just have it backwards?

    Any other guys have this issue?
     
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    My SO cums from oral in 10 mins but she gets senstive too after she cums but is fine for penatration afterward so it works great. First cum from oral then move on to intercourse :tup
     
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    Yep - that's what we do. I'd just be into doing oral longer before moving on if she weren't so sensitive.
     
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    A couple of woman have described to me that they just can't do too much clitoral orgasm. I try to stretch it out best I can but usually after 1-2 mins of cumming she says enough. It's a beautiful thing to see so I do want it to go on longer too.

    I've fooled around with trying intercourse before oral and most woman want it the other way around because they love the different sensation of penatration after they've cum.

    Oh one thing you can try is to stop and restart. I lightly rest my palm over her vagina after she is done cumming enough and she just goes into a low simmer lightly shaking and trembling as she rides it out longer. Sometimes after a minute you can go back with the tongue and she'll cum again very quicky.
     
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    That little move works wonders on me. :p Excellent tip MikeDog :tup
     
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    Ditto here,
    I always like to make the Lady cum and cum as many times as
    possible.
    But I stop after the first orgasm, but for just a few seconds
    then I like to put my hand on Her mons or ass and very lightly
    work my way back to her pussy and slowly build the
    momentum back up, I can do this 3-5 times then my
    wife will go into a continious orgasm that has lasted
    as long as 15 minutes, But when She does that She
    is good for fucking but not to hard as She is spent.

    A question Naughty how many times have you cum in a night???

    Hiker:sf
     
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    I don't usually count,... I know I can easily 8 or 9 times in a night, but I'm plenty happy with a few real screamers. :eek: :D

    Interested in doing a case study, Hiker? :lol
     
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    bighiker2003 Banned

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    Very interested Naughty
    could we re create that 8 or 9 nite and
    keep a count, Just for study you know.

    Hiker:dgrin
     
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    Can I bring a slide rule in case there might be multiples? :D
     
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    I've had about a hundred lovers, give or take, and the majority could go onto second and third orgasms after a medium break of about a minute or so. Some you could keep going with just a minor adjustment in pressure, and some you just had to stop, they came once in a session and that was it. One girl was so sensitive we couldn't have intercourse for a few minutes after she came because my cock pulling her labia would be too uncomfortable.

    So most women are capable of multiples, but many are quite different, and we just need to learn the differences.

    My SO is very quick to orgasm, like about three or four minutes, and she's ready again about a minute later. But she can only take about two or three orgasms, then it is too much for her. This is very much like your wife.
     
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    You could learn how to extend her orgasm with out the climax, which can be done for HOURS.
     
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    I try to extend my wife's orgasm, I feel the tension in her legs and ease the pressure and keep her riding a peak for quite a while. It mostly works, and when she comes, you certainly feel it and hear it. That way her one or two is fuller and more satisfying for her, and more fun for me.
     
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    I was born with a slide rule Naughty
    Lets just keep track with long scratches on your
    perfect butt
    Oops Excuse me I didnt really mean to say that.

    Hiker:dgrin

    Being a devil again.
     
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    I expect a kiss on each of those scratches, Hiker.
    You know, to help them heal, so we can start over again. :p
     
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    How many scratches, Naughty, I wanna double that number in kisses.
    You do know what happens after a Guy kisses a perfect Womans butt don't You.

    Hiker:dgrin
     
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    cbrmale;

    How do you keep her riding on a peak? Have you ever taken her on multiple peaks. Thanks for participating in my research!
     
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