Oral Sex Duration

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  1. Princess_Olga

    Princess_Olga New Member

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    I'm curious to hear from men and women about how long they usually spend on an oral sex session (whether it's to one orgasm or many, or as a prelude to intercourse or not). I saw a mention in another post that someone spent 35 minutes giving a woman oral sex as if this were the usual duration and that made me go 'oh..it's okay for it to take that long?'
     
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    I had one partner I saw a couple of times who used to take around half an hour to come once. Most partners I've had take about ten minutes to come first time, and my wife takes about three or four minutes. If it is a quickie, like morning on a work day, then we may go straight to intercourse. If it is more laid-back, I will cuddle her and kiss her for a few minutes until her sensitivity abates and then do it again. So, what is that, six to eight minutes with a couple of minutes of cuddling in between? After her second orgasm, she is way too sensitive, so we have to move to something else like intercourse.

    Here are a few numbers for you: thirty minutes minumum one girl, typically ten for most other women for one orgasm, and twenty for two orgasms, and my wife with eight minutes and two orgasms.

    I hope this helps.
     
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    My oral session lengths depend on how it is being conducted.

    For example, with one partner he will spend a minimum of half an hour licking/sucking/teasing/kissing my pussy. Then I will spend probably about the same amount of time on licking sucking his balls and penis. Then we 69 and oral each other together, maybe for about 15 mins.

    Then a bit of fucking or breast fondling/fucking or anal play.. then back to oral for a good length of time again. We spend more time on oral than any other sexual act.

    My other partner spends very little time on oral, maybe 10 mins at the most. He loves the feeling of being inside me too much he says.

    With both of them I usually cum within a few minutes of beginning oral/foreplay/sexual intercourse and I have about 4 or 5 orgasms within half an hour.

    The partner that likes oral more, tends to take a long time to cum and actually becomes flaccid for a little while before he has orgasmed and I tend to worry that he is not as pleasured as much as I am. He has told me he believes it is the fact he is getting older (54), but I am not sure this is so. He does become erect again though and he cums very strongly and with much feeling hehehehe.

    With my other partner, he does not last as long. After about 10 mins of oral and 10 mins inside me he comes. He is rock hard from the moment he touches me to the final culmination.

    I love sex with both men...... yet they are so different lol Go figure lol
     
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    My wife probably averages ten to fifteen minutes before getting off on oral. We once went about an hour. She had something like three big orgams and countless small ones during that time. I can remember how sore my neck and wrist were the next day.
     
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    It depends on how she's doing it for me. If the she's is taking it slow and switching between my balls and my penis I can last for a long time (I've never cummed that way.) We always use that for forplay, if we are just doing oral then she's going a little fast and sucking it more than licking it it's usually about ten minutes.

    Same goes for her.
     
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    If you don't consider quickies, I would say going on my knees to give a guy a "traditional" blowjob takes 20minutes. For 69 it takes about 20-30 min to get each other off so to speak. For him going down on me with my legs spread takes 15-20min. These would be fairly accurate averages!

    I am talking about oral sex from start to orgasm here - for foreplay it would obviously be less!
     
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    Sex is so much better if you don't try to over think it. Every session could be different depending on your mood, how tired or energetic the two of you are, and many other things. It's okay for it to take as long as you want, or as short as you want; until you're both satisfied, or too tired to carry on. As partners, knowing when the other is ready to slow down or keep going, is just something the two of you will learn.
     
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    My wife takes from 2 to 5 minutes and I am about the same. I give a lot of oral in the xxx movies and after 5 minutes, I lose interest and quit. Many of those guys have already gone once so it might take a lot longer.
     
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    There is no right amount of time , it all depends how long the female and male ( or female female ) are happy with, some females love oral to take loads of time , some just a few minutes....if a woman is hyper sensative then a few minutes will get her big time, if not then it may take longer...its all down to prefereance...
     
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    WHAT? Are you telling us you are a porn star?!?! Yee haw!
     
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    Hahaha CL

    Lets see one of your xxx movies then....or at least some pics?

    Please?
     
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    It usually takes my wife about 5-10 minutes. In the beginning of giving her oral it would take a lot longer. I believe there are a lot of woman out there where it takes a while until they are comfortable having oral done to them. If you have someone that is inexperienced in receiving it could definitely take a while. Believe me, I spent a lot of time practically standing on my head with my tongue hanging out. But it was worth every minute.
     
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    Usually no more than 10 minutes - we like to get straight down to the slammin!
     
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    For me it depends on what led up to it and what mood i am in when it starts. If starting from ground zero I can last a lot longer than with regular intercourse...but I can choose to cum faster by using muscles and thoughts to quicken the pace...
     
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    I spend about 10 minutes on average. Sometimes she cums quickly in 5 minutes or takes a little longer like 15 mins. In our case oral is before intercourse because she likes the feeling of penatration after she has climaxed.
     
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    I get off in about 10 - 20 minutes orally. If we're 69'ing, it's rather quick. If he's just doing me, he 'teases' me alot <pant-pant> so, it is prolonged and ends in a screaming orgasm, followed by intercourse of incredible intensity. It HAS taken 30 minutes or so, on occassion. I have felt bad, and asked if he wanted to stop (you know, getting a tired tongue or something...) but that's usually after a relatively stressful time for me... so he is more than happy to hang in there and give me what I want and need.
     
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    One lass I dated a while back, for my birthday offered herself to me as my sex slave for the day. She told me whenever I wanted I could call on her to do to me, or me to her what I wanted, as long as it didnt hurt.
    So after our usual morning session, I was sat downstairs and decided to watch some bond. Fast cars, hot ladies guns, what could make it better. A hour long oral seesion!
    From start to finish, she sat there and sucked bringing me off twice. Granted she took little breaks, but it was amazing.
     
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    Depends on how turned on you are and technique.

    I can usually get my partner to cum via a blowjob in under 5 minutes, and he can usually make me cum licking my pussy and clit in under 5 minutes.

    Guess we are both very good at the technique required.

    Never spent anywhere near the time spans some people are quoting!!
     
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