I know it's stupid but I feel guilty when i get oral. I feel as if I take "too long" to cum. That i should be enjoying it more. My bf really enjoys pleasing me and is actually very skilled but for some reason I just can't let go, the longer I take the more paranoid I become which obviously makes it worse. Has anybody else had anything like this before? Been quite stressed lately.. Any advice appreciated as its getting worse and is really starting to piss me off!