Looking through the different threads I was looking for one relating to my question which I couldn't find (which I thought would be rather common)... So here's my question: I love receiving and giving oral!! ...but I have yet to get an orgasm by oral. My previous partners I have always pulled them up after a few min, not really getting into it. The partner I have now is just amazing at it (just thinking about it during the day gets me all hot and bothered). I let him stay down there a lot longer, it just feels so good!! ...but I have yet to orgasm from it, I have tried a toy and oral and yet it gets me rather close I just can't orgasm. I can get off from normal sex, some positions quicker then others and using my vibrater on my clit while using a dildo I am able to achieve an orgasm...just not orally. Oh and I like 69 but i get rather distracted and forget what I'm supposed to be doing. I don't want to hear ...well some people just can't, what I like about this forum is the whole learning and open discussions about sex. Feeding off of each others ideas and experiences. So any idea besides the "just give up" response is welcomed.