[Ask a Guy] or Girl -- anal prepardness

Discussion in 'Ask a Guy/Girl' started by coramfuncpl00, Feb 20, 2012.

  1. coramfuncpl00

    coramfuncpl00 New Member

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    So we are in the type of relationship where the husband enjoys Anal insertion and strapons, etc...

    He generally goes into the bathroom prior to play and tries to go, then showers and hoses himself out and uses a wash cloth to clean out his anus well...problem is that every now and then the dildo comes out covered in poop, most likely because of the depth the dong goes in...it is gross and is a great mood killer. She generally does not complain but still neither of us like it, because instead of going right to the next step, we now have to run to the bathroom and clean or place it in the sink because we are not leaving a shit covered dong on the bed, floor, or anywhere else in the bedroom until we finish...

    Question -- Is there anyway to help limit or stop this from happening?
     
  2. xeniadraven

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    have u tried using an anal douche specifically for the purpose? there are lots on the market, some are better than others and with be more thorough than others.

    just because he has been to the toilet beforehand and had a wash doesnt necessarily mean that through play things wont start "moving". which is probably causing the mess occasionally.

    douche all the way!

    good luck guys x
     
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    coramfuncpl00 New Member

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    Honestly, no we haven't tried that...thats a good idea, you said some are better than others, can you reccomend one?
     
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    Cant recommend one as a basic one seems to work for me, but i would have a look around online and read some reviews. or even just buy a basic one (they're cheap enough to try) and see if it makes a difference. The harder you squirt the bulb the further the flush so i guess its all in the technique lol
     
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    Pornstars swear by them, from what I've read. Saves having to spend 50 quid and being on a waiting list to have a coffee enema...


    ...mmmmmm coffee...
     
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    My husband washes and uses the dildo in the shower to help clean himself out after he poops. Very rarely is there ever any on the dildo during anal play in the bedroom.
     
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    Further to a previous post. No, we are not married[​IMG]
     
  8. xeniadraven

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    Haha!! gotta be practical what can I say?!!