Hi! I'll try to make this as short as possible. But could use some input. I'm 33, my wife is 37. We've been married for 10 years. Our sex life was great. We had it 4-5 times a week, had 3-somes, & a few other "crazy" adventures. But, a couple years ago, she had to have a full hysterectomy. Of course, with her "mommy parts" gone, so is her sex drive. I know we are not the only couple to go through this. MY sex drive is still there. Now, I know I should be happy with masturbation. Often, it IS enough. But, there are women that have flat out asked me to come over. ( not for coffee. ) They know my situation, & want to "help". I also know cheating is wrong. But everyday, it seems less & less wrong. I DO love my wife, really. BUT, when I get messages/texts that say, "Honey, come over here, I'll fuck your brains out right now." it becomes VERY difficult to keep saying no. I know, I need to have will power. It really WOULDN'T be about "feelings", rather having the nasty dirty fun we all love. But, I'm basically faced with having sex once every 3-4 months for the rest of my life. Am I being too selfish? My wife IS wonderful, but I really don't like the idea of a sexless marriage at only 33. What to do? Any experiences / advice? Thanks!