What constitutes a fetish? I happen to LOVE Asian born women, women in general, breasts of all sizes and shapes, pussy, ass, legs....I mean...there are so many things I can focus on. Sooo.....is a fetish a "single minded" focus? The ONLY thing that gets one off? I solicit you all with this because I get the word "fetish" from friends when speaking of Asian born women, or women with those traits....black hair, black eyes ect. What would be the anti-fetish?.......I love blonds , but the first woman to catch my eye in a room is usually dark. I'm confused...as you probably are with this.