Opinion: "BBW"s?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by 10_3XL, Apr 18, 2014.

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Large(r) lovers...

  1. Yuck! No way! Thin is in.

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  2. Things like that don't matter to me.

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  3. Please, sir, I want some more!

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  4. Only on special occasions. ;)

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  1. 10_3XL

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    I'm curious to hear everyone's opinion on Big Beautiful Women (or for that matter Big "Beautiful" Men)? A turn-on? Turn-off? Don't care? Pros and cons of being with one (if you've had the pleasure)? Is it a "fetish" to be interested in heavier partners? Why do larger lovers seem to be more commonly found appealing by older/more "mature" individuals?

    Sorry, I have tons of questions relating to the subject and didn't want to spam the forum with a ton of separate threads!

    (And, yes, I'm primarily asking because I myself am definitely in the "More To Love" category of men.)
     
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    My ex the only girl i've has sex with, was pretty big. That didn't change anything for me at all, she still looked great naked to me at least. I would take a BBW over a stick insect anyday. When hugging,cuddling, having sex i'd like to be able to feel warmth from their body and also not have to worry about breaking them.

    All that being said and true, i think what counts as BBW/BBM is highly subjective. There is a line between big and beautiful and then just way over weight and not attractive. Where that line in drawn would vary from person to person.
     
  3. Mikey22

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    Nothing wrong with a BBW. The anorexic stick look does nothing for me, A full figured woman with curves is sexy!
     
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    I like my bf to be bigger than myself.
    Taller and weight.
     
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    I've said this in many different threads here .. I like women with curves, soft and sexy .... Big butts hips and breasts....
     
  6. CaramelLady

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    You gentlemen make me happy.....
     
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    Yeah, I was surprised when I stopped and thought about the fact that my current SO falls under the thin/trim/fit category rather than curvaceous/voluptuous/delicious ;) category. Not that there's anything wrong with that - just definitely not my "usual type"
     
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    I'm BBW and damn proud of it!!
    If someone doesn't like me... Your loss not mine.

    I prefer my guy to be a little taller than I am and to have some meat on his bones.
     
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    I love the look of BBW. Turns me on....
     
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  10. CaramelLady

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    My body type will not ever be thin. My hour glass has a few more minutes on it, ha ha. I do workout and try not to let those extra minutes accumulate. LOL
     
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    No part of me is or has ever been skinny--and I'm fine with that. Just another way to filter out men who aren't for me.

    That being said, I do have an issue with the BBW acronym/phrase though. I might be big, but at the end of the day I'm just a beautiful woman. There are plenty more adjectives I'd rather put in front of "beautiful woman" besides "big".

    I prefer my men tall with some weight on them. Stick figures don't turn me on.
     
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    That just means your hotter Caramellady... :D

     
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  13. CaramelLady

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    Thank you phish....
     
  14. CaramelLady

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    Hollah!
     
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    I'm no fan of the acronym myself, I simply used it for people to be able to simply identify this thread! A better acronym would be something like BCL for Buxom Curvaceous Ladies in my opinion. Or maybe AVW for Astonishing Voluptuous Women ;)

    Of course - why label?? You're all women and all lovely (to me)! :D
     
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    Even those would be kinda annoying to me. I'm not offended by being called big. I am big. And I realize some men LIKE big[ger] women. But that's not the end-all-be-all, and that's not what I want keeping a man around.
     
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    That is fair. Like I said in my last sentence why label? It really serves no purpose. :)
    For me, another part of the appeal in larger/heavier/whatever-you-want-to-call-them women is that they tend to be more understanding of my insecurities, doubts, and so on - as they have usually gone through similar feelings themselves. This compassion and empathy (rather than sympathy or pity) is a lovely thing to experience - it ain't easy being so "big and beautiful" sometimes. This helps build the bond between us and we can both be secure with each other in our insecurity! ;)
     
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    Attitude and compatibility are what attracts me to a woman but that being said…I love curvy! HOT HOT HOT
     
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    Dependsn the person herself, just like witgh slim women.
    Disadvantage would be some positions being more challenging.
     
  20. biker061

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    Its all good, I understand my attraction to larger ladies and I'm very comfortable with that! Take a look at our pix, we're both on the larger size!
     
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