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  1. _Lottie_

    _Lottie_ New Member

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    Hi everyone, I just have a question...

    I was going out with a guy for over a year and we had unprotected sex because we had both been tested, but then we broke up and he had unprotected sex with a pretty skanky girl which made me really mad.

    Anyway we started seeing each other again and I made him use condoms, but the other night it COMPLETELY broke, to the point where he may as well have not been wearing one at all.

    Anyway he hadn't cum or anything, but what could I have been exposed to?

    It just sux that I was the one being careful and that happened. GRRR.

    What do you guys think? Be kind too, I'm a newbie here :)
     
  2. xPoZeD

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    First of all I like ur atitude for protection!

    Well if the condom broke u were exposed to STD`s... sorry :eyes
     
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    Welcome Lottie! You should test again..
     
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    _Lottie_ New Member

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    Hey guys, thanks for the replies!

    I think you are right, I will have to get tested again.

    I just resent the fact that HIS stupid mistake is now MY problem!
     
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    wel if you are going to get yoruself tested, definatly get him tested. i mean no sence in worrying about it again ya know?
     
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    No need to worry about that, we've broken up again!
     
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    "I just resent the fact that HIS stupid mistake is now MY problem!" ---> I don`t want to sound evil bit u should think about it sooner!
     
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    xPoZeD - sorry but your post makes no sense at all, what are you talking about?
     
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    again: You shold be thinking what can happen if the two of you have sex...
     
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    Yes well it's not often a condom completely breaks like that, so I was the one being cautious. I think that his stupid mistake now being mine is a valid one. I was the one trying to be good whereas he just does whatever he wants. I do admit I was stupid to even sleep with him again, he's an asshole and seems to take pleasure in breaking my heart over and over again, anyway I'm off on a tangent.
     
  11. xPoZeD

    xPoZeD New Member

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    So forget about him and move on...
     
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    _Lottie_ New Member

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    You know xPoZeD you could learn a thing or two about being tactful and caring.
     
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    I know, but I once had a simmilar situation and I am just trying to help you realise that is better to move on, than be stuck in history...
     
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    Thanks, I appreciate that - just think you could be more tactful especially when I am obviously feeling hurt about the whole thing atm.
     
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    hey lottie im sorta new to and i know what you mean. people think your stupid to feel so bad because your guy was such a dick. but you really loved him didnt you. i kust wanna let you know at least someone in here (me lol) understands you and yes you were right to make him where a condom. i mean if he fucked some skanky whore. pardon the language. i mean maybe he did it to get back at you or something i dunna the whole story and you dont need to spill it because it is your life lol sorry got off subject there. any way what i am saying is that i rspect what you did most people dont care about std's ethier that or they just plain out dont know the facts. but i admire what you did and yes you and he should be tested again, just for safety sake ok? hope this helps ,tsukassa
     
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    _Lottie_ : sorry I will be more tactful in the future!
     
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    tsukassa - thanks for your advice, it's good to hear you know what I am going through! I might even share the rest of my story in the break up thread.

    xPoZeD - no probs, thanks.
     
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