[Ask a Girl] One of my issues

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  1. TheHornenator

    TheHornenator New Member

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    Even though I've posted this in other places here it goes.

    Throughout my comparatively short sex life, girls that I've gotten intimate without actually having sex, at least a couple of girls said that they are hesitant to do anything sexual with me because they are afraid of "corrupting" me. I guess for the fact that I come across as a very nice guy and that I'm a virgin who hasn't done anything sexual with anyone else?

    So I was wondering if there is anything I could say or do the next time I'm in this type of situation with a girl that would make her less hesitant to hook up with me?

    So what's the opinion out there among the women of this particular issue?
     
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    Hell man, don't tell them you are a virgin. Just let it flow natural.
     
  3. Mittimer

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    I almost agree with the above comment. I don't want to say lie to them about it but a lot of girls don't really want to hear their potential partner say "I'm a virgin" I know that I wouldn't want to take a guys virginity, especially if I've already had sex with multiple partners.

    To me, at least, there is too much to give/take when losing your virginity and taking that from someone can't be something casual for me.
     
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    I didn't, but in one of the cases she assumed I was one. I figure she somehow sensed it then?

    I guess I can see where girls are coming from on this, personally wouldn't want to have sex with a virgin. Although, I figure in this sense it would be different for a woman/girl to take a guy's virginity then the other way around.
     
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  5. Mittimer

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    In my opinion there isn't anything different in a woman taking a mans virginity than a man taking a woman's virginity. You're still giving yourself to her, and shes taking it from you.


    That's something I never have understood.
     
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    Well, except for the fact that it often hurts for women the first time around? Not for every woman, but I have often heard stories about how much it hurt if the hymen was more-or-less intact. This one reason why I would be nervous around a virgin. For some, it doesn't hurt at all, though.
     
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    I lost my virginity to another virgin. It was messy and uncomfortable. Had no idea about a woman having to get wet first. Was glad to get it over and done with though.
     
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    If you want to do it that way, just act like you're not a virgin. I have the opposite problem, I'm a virgin but there is not a one person who would guess that about me. If you watch enough porn and read enough about sex you'll come off like you've done it a million times even though you haven't.