Hi Girls, Usually when I'm going down on a woman, I both lick and finger. I finger her to get her wet and in the mood, then I go down and lick while continuing to finger. Sometimes it's an issue for obvious matters of space; her vagina has to be expanded enough for me to eat her out and have a finger or two circling around in the area of her vulva below my face. Sometimes I use two fingers, sometimes one. A few weeks ago one of the two women I was seeing stopped me at one point because I was going a little too hard in the fingering department. So I stopped. I just licked her. She started gasping after a few minutes and drew her thighs together and jerked her body upwards. The morning after, after we woke up, I went down on her again. This time I was under the sheets. I decided to use one finger this time and was mindful of being gentle. She got so fucking wet this time and I would not have been able to tell how wet she was if it weren't for me having one finger swishing around. So I just rubbed the one side of her vagina that felt the wettest and let her soak my finger while I moved my tongue side to side. And she did all the same moves; pulled at my hair, moaned, gasped and her thighs spasmed over my forehead and she jerked backward. Was it any better for her this second time? I don't really know. Was it better for me? Yes, because I got to feel how wet she was. The second woman, whom I saw later on that same day (hehe judge all you want) I also went down on but didn't use any fingers simultaneously. I had been fingering her before, then I just licked her. It only lasted a few minutes with her and although she got kind of aroused, I didn't enjoy it as much. I wasn't as in to her. Her pussy tasted kind of strange. So based on this weekend, it seems like one finger is the way to go while eating out to maximize her pleasure and mine, but I'm wondering if most women prefer this way in general. Should I sometimes just try licking? Do some women only "get there" with two fingers working with the tongue? Taking a break from cunnilingus right now anyway (Stiff neck and sore throat after that day) but when I come back I want to be prepared.