Ok...My Fiance and I have a semi-open relationship. We've had 3-somes before with other women and I love it. I love being with women and watching him be with another woman. I love being with him with another woman in bed...BUT...well...Let's start from the beginning. Before my fiance and I started dating, he was speaking to another woman whom I shall refer to as Nancy. He and Nancy enjoyed eachother's company and had had some pretty good sex. The problem with Nancy is that she lives 3 or 4 hours away. Nancy left town and they still talked on the phone and such and then he met me. We began dating and we are now engaged. About 4 months into our dating, my fiance asked me how I felt about 3-somes. I, at the time, did not know how I felt about it. I didn't know if I could watch the man I love be with another woman. He told me that he was still talking to Nancy and that she would like to have a 3 some with us. Nancy and I spoke a few times and to make a long story short, we all had sex. I loved it. I thought it was so hot to have my fiance look at my while he was with another woman. The sex was really good, but while we were doing it, I got the feeling that she was really not into me. She wouldn't touch me or try to enhance my pleasure. I later found out that she "got upset" and felt that we "used her for sex", which to me was completely rediculous. Well, to make a long story short (yeah, I know...too late) Nancy is back. I don't think I've made this clear but Nancy has feelings for my fiance and he has feelings for her. He's told me that there is a connection for them when they are together. I think that's what makes my situation so difficult. The feelings involved. I don't think I would care if he didn't like her. I know he loves me and I know he doesn't want to be with her permanantly, but It is so confusing and furstrating. I just don't know what to do about it. So there you have it all...well most all. What do you think?