me and my G/F have had it bad recently, shes had exams and stuff like that, i also have had my final exams to get my qualification, i have had a couple of other big things on my mind, mainly that i have a lack of money, but no that aint a problem for me anymore, our exams are all over, and latley we both have been stressed and tired, she told me she needs a break, which is hard for me, because i just think thats a way of telling me its over in a nice way. i think another thing is that i havent had the money to go out clubbing or anything really, she always offers me money, and i really hate borrowing money, we spoke last nite and she knows i love her, she said that she loves me, and towards the end of the nite we were fine, we were smiling, but still not together, she said she wants a few months apart, but i cant do that, i felt like saying its now or never, but i dont want to push her, and i cant have a few months apart. i need her to believe that those things that i was stressed about have gone away, and the only thing on my mind is her, i have told her this, but i really need her to believe me. also i have had a payrise, i was an apprentice, thats why money was tight, so if we get back together, i want to take her out and show her i really care for her and love her, i know she likes clubbing, i know she likes it when i get a little bit drunk, so i was thinking i should take her out just the two of us, somewhere romantic, and then going clubbing and getting a bit drunk, she stays at mine at weekends so we could go back to mine. i understand that she may need time, i just think if we love each other then we can get through this together. what do you think? any tips on how i can get her to truly believe me that i do love her? i hope i can get replies asap, im seeing her tonight and i really think i need her to believe me, if i cant do it tonight then i dont think i will want to try again.