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  1. Tiffani

    Tiffani New Member

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    I was just curious if anyone knew if it is normal for a girl my age (21) to find older men (over 40) very sexy? If they are married it's even hotter to me. Is that normal? I think older men have much more experience and know what a girl wants or needs. Mmmmmmmmmmm
     
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    I was always attracted to older men. My thing was the salt and pepper hair that always turned my head but, mainly was the less drama and inmaturity found in the younger men. As for older men knowing what women want and need, I think it just seems like that becuase, they have been with more women. You are the person that needs to know what you want and need. Once you figure that out you can tell any man at any age what floats your boat.
     
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    I'm 41. Nice to meet you. [​IMG]
     
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    It usually doesn't take me this long to respond to a thread, but I had to lock & chain Thorn(age 56... :eyes ) before he saw this. LOL

    BEFORE I GET BLASTED BY ALL THE UNDER-FORTY GUYS HERE.... - This is a general observation! Most of you "young'uns" on this list are not part of the norm. You seem genuinely interested in pleasing your partners.

    Anyway, I think it's pretty normal for younger women to be infatuated with older men. And quite true, it is because they don't bring along alot of drama, and they are incredibly confident when it comes to sex. I think an older man has passed the point in his life when sex is all about getting himself off. He is more interested in pleasing his partner (though this, too, is ego building).

    The thing that concerns me is not the age, but the fact that you are more turned on by married men - (*checking to make sure Thorn is still locked up... :lol ) * . That is something totally different. - It's like being able to have 100 men, but wanting that one that is 'off limits'. To take the chance of ruining a man's life (along with another woman's life, and perhaps children, as well) may add to your sexual intensity, but it is a sign of immaturity and selfishness on both your parts. I hope I'm not sounding insensitive, but enjoying sex with an older man is one thing; enjoying sex with an older married man is quite another.
     
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    I realize that being with a married man is wrong, and I have never done that. I was just saying that it was hot to me....I guess a fantasy.....the "forbidden fruit" theory.
     
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    AHHH! - then that's a whole different story! :tup

    I have loads of fantasies that I know I won't really act upon - but they are great turn-ons.

    ...*unlocking Thorn from his cage... LOL *
     
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    I like the way you think. Did I mention I'm 41?
     
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    NOW THAT I'M FREE FROM BEING LOCKED UP. :lock:

    I'm older than Frank! hehehe :brow
     
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    Did I mention that I'm 40? :brow
     
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    She likes me best. I'm 54.
     
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    I'm 41. Nice to meet you.
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    ....Hmmmmmmm.. :eyes ,,, What's wrong with this picture...?

    :shifty I think I better let Mrs. Frank borrow the locking cage.
     
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    I've got 2 years on you. I'm 56. :) But she probably meant "older men" and not "oldest men." :eyes
     
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    Damn you and your amazing sleuthing! I'm only 41 to Tiffani. :) Right, Tiff?
     
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    Im only 38 but I look over 40.....that didn't come out right...
     
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    I just turned 40....never have looked my age. :phat ..and my wife often tells me to "act your age"...lol..."getting older is mandatory..growing up is not"..something I live by all the time.
     
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    I like that attitude. Discribes me to a "T" :lol
     
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    I am 41 and... often find younger women very attractive...
     
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    Sorry to reply to the thread so much but I'm an older man. :lol

    I, as a lot of older men, dream and fantasize about being with a younger woman. It's just a natural thing for sexually driven men to think about pleasing and getting pleasure from a younger girl. But when my girl (that’d be my wife) is driving me crazy in bed it's like she is 22 years old. But what's great is that she has all the experience that no 20some could ever have. Nothing against all the 20somes (30somes & 40somes) on this list. You girls are the exception when it comes to sexuality! :brow But my fantasies are all fulfilled be my wife. :sex
     
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    Sex without relationship ends up being empty. My wife knows my likes, dislikes, and turnons. Our sex took some time to get good. There is a first time thrill to be sure, but looking back it was nothing.
     
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    I can agree with you Tiffani, I have always had a thing for older men. But the older I get the younger that fantasy gets Hahaha.

    After having sex with slightly older men and finding out they can some times have trouble keeping up with a wild sex crazed woman like myself, well I'm learning that closer to my age can be better ;) Hahaha

    Ahhhh to have back the days when a guy could bang me for an hour and then come back within twenty minutes later for another round of hot monkey love...

    There is definately something to be said for those younger guys! Not that my man is over the hill, he's only 36 and can keep up with me for the most part and the only man so far able to bring me to multiple orgasms more than twice a week. And if I do need a little fun in the afternoon I grab my handy vibe. LOL

    Lady
     
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