Ok, this has been bugging a few of us at work

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  1. Ladysierra

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    And I told my friends I'd ask on here to get opinions LOL.

    When you watch porn, which my friends and I all enjoy doing (not together mind you LOL) you can't get through one movie where someone is getting head and getting spit on. We have no idea what the purpose of this is. Is it pleasurable in any way? I personally wouldn't think so.

    One friend has had this done and she said it didn't do a thing for her. So she called her bf after we got done at work and asked him what the thrill is, his reply was "it's just a part of sex" Hahaha.

    Anyone have any opinions I can pass along as to why someone would like to spit on someone else or be spit on?

    It doesn't even make sense for lube because you already get enough spit going while giving head and in our cases lube isn't necessary at all LOL.
     
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    ummm I think spit is gross..... I can only think of people using it for lube as porn is a job where they always have to be hard and ready.

    I hate the old spit out afterwards as well...... but I am shamed to say I did it when my friend and I were giving her hubby a blowjob after he blew in my mouth.... but I only spat it out so she could have a taste as well and he thought it was a turn on...... did nothing for us girls though.

    Young inexperienced girls generally spit on their fellas cocks, when giving a bj, only because they have seen it in porn or their equally young man has seen it in porn and is giving instructions.....

    If my mouth is dry during a bj, I take a mouthful of water to hydrate my mouth and keep going....
     
  3. igor

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    Spitting on someone is, to me, not much different than peeing on someone. I see absolutely nothing sexy abou it at all, in fact both are disgusting IMO:down
     
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    Ditto. I think this discussion has come up before. :)
     
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    Yep, we've had this same discussion before, but no matter how many times it comes up, I still feel the same. Suck me, lick me, use your tongue to tickle my genitalia until I come; I will love you for it, but, if you dare spit on me, consider your nuts kicked. :dgrin
     
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    Hahaha that's the way I feel CL, thankfully hubby is the same way!

    Sorry guys, haven't been on in a while so didn't realize it had been discussed before, guess I should have searched the forums a bit harder :)

    I don't think I'll ever get the spitting thing. Or the peeing thing for that matter *shudders*. Some things just aren't sexy or a turn on for me...
     
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    I always just figured they spit in porno because they've been having marathon sex for a few hours and can't get wet anymore. More of a practical thing than anything else.

    I would have to agree with CL and lady though, spitting on someone seems really really rude to me.
     
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    I have licked my hand before, to help lube it up (usually I have lube around, or just use my mouth), but I don't spit on hubby-it seems a little disrespectful.
     
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    I'll lick my hand and will sometimes suck his fingers to get them a little wet if we've been at it a while and we're too much in the moment to get up and get some other form of liquid.

    I wouldn't hock and spit though. Eww.
     
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    I prob would not like it very much, and most likely would turn me off if some just spat on me, but Im guessing in porn its supposed to show it being a "dirty" act maybe?
     
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    My wife will use saliva as lube when using her hand during or after a blowjob. She doesn't porno style spit on it, but she will let the saliva kinda drool out of her mouth onto my cock. Although I just now realize that this sounds a lot less hot than it really is.
     
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    I personally think that spit isn't that good of a lube, especially in porn movies, they sort of spit real fast, missing the region to "lube" every second time. Also, I do find it awkward when I see it in movies... I've seen movies where they actually take a bottle of lube and poor it on the girls pussy or anus... it's actually less weird than spitting on it.
     
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    I usually skip these parts haha
     
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    Yea, the whole spitting thing in some of the porn is really sorta gross...I mean what's the next step, that whole hold one nostril and blow boogies out the other side thing?
    whew...ugh.
     
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    It is disrespectful IMO. I have no clue why a guy or a woman for that matter would think that this enhances sexual play. It's far more likely to stop any further sex at that moment. But, that being said, I try to keep an open mind about things that turn some ppl on, even if they don't do a thing for me.
     
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    iv never had my gf spit on my dick so i dont know if it would be bad but im not gonna be asking for it any time soon.
     
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    It is not appealing at all to me...or anyone that I know
     
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    spitting is yucky
     
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    Totally agree the whole spit thing is way overdone and apparently not popular. ( I spoke to a buddy a mine regarding this practice before.)
    I seems to me to have something to do with degrading one another. I dunno, I just know its not for me.

    Btw--Hey..I'm the new guy here. Lol
     
  20. Mr Sensitive

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    My wife and I are pretty...open minded and have engaged in a lot of interesting and unusual activities, but I can honestly say I derive no pleasure from the old 'spit cock'. I don't even like getting too-wet blowjobs. If a girl tried to spit on me I wouldn't really be cool with that, as I find it nauseating. Even if I'm watching a DVD I'll fast forward through any scenes like that