Like my username says I'm proudly married to my wife who is a redhead, we'll be having our 10th anniversary later this year. I am kind of passing time this week while she's travelling with her oldest sister and mom to Israel, and looking for ideas. We're pretty vanilla when it comes to sex, but we still enjoy it when we can - which can be difficult with our 2 kids age 4 and 5, who take a lot of energy. I liked the idea of black light, so I'm looking into that, maybe with some neon body paint and such. I read vaseline glows under black light. So I was wondering if there are others here in similar situations or if a lot of folks here might be more adventurous.