How many have seen you soft before your get together? Not one has seen me flaccid. "SHE" has always made me hard. Early and often. Just kissing her gets me hard in seconds. So much so and I have the first night I met my SO, I had to hug her from the side, cause I had a boner that would not quit. Between peeking at her cleavage all night and then asking if I could kiss her, which was a huge bonus, it was a five hour hard on that I had to take care of when I got home. Many conversations have been had about how my flaccid size ranges.