I'm female, 19 years old, and I'm not sure if I'm bi or straight. I find men attractive, but then I also find some women attractive (including my best friend) and when I read erotic fiction, I like reading about lesbians as well as heterosexuals. But...I don't find many women attractive, just some. Does this mean I'm bi? Or do all women find other women attractive to some extent? Is there some kind of test or something that will tell me if I'm bi? Or am I just bi-curious? I don't think I would object to being in a relationship with a girl, but if it came down to it I might not have the courage...so really, I don't know. And for a while I know I've been attracted to my best friend, she's female too. But I know she's straight. Is it wrong to be attracted to your best friend? Sometimes, when we've been drinking together, I've been tempted to tell her that I find her attractive. In fact I've even told her she's beautiful, because she is, and I don't see how anybody could say she isn't. And also when we've been drunk I've wanted to kiss her, and I've also taken advantage of the fact that nobody minds seeing two drunk girls holding hands, and I also put my arm around her if it feels right. I don't think she suspects. At least I hope not. So is it wrong to be attracted to my best friend? Are other girls attracted to some extent to their best friends? I've known my best friend now for 8 years now: can you become sexually attracted to a friend if you've known them for a certain amount of time? There's something else I could add that could help people 'diagnose' me: I work in a shop at the moment as a summer job...and I look at girls' breasts and I'm a girl myself. But I also look at men too. I don't like all girls...some of them look 'cheap' and false. Too made up...others, I do find attractive. Like my best friend. I think she's beautiful and I'm also sexually attracted to her. But I've known her for quite a while. I know these are stupid questions, but I'm curious. So could anyone tell me if I'm Bi, or Bi-curious? Because I'm really not sure.