Something happened today that I'm not quite sure how to handle. We have a contractor that has been working on our house for months. He is chummy with my husband and I and seems pretty goofy for the most part, not the type to intimidate. I go upstairs quite a bit to check his work and bring him coffee, and oftentimes we bullshit a bit. Because I feel so comfortable with him, I talk openly about sex with him and even showed him one of my stories. I have always made it clear that my creative writing is just that, just fiction and I have never flirted with him. Once in a while, he will make some comment about me in a sexual way, but nothing too over the top. I just laugh it off, but never say anything back to him to imply I'm interested in him. Today, I was walking past him in the hall and he slapped me on the ass. I didn't say or do anything, just went downstairs. Later on, I had to go back up there and it he was all business, did not say or do anything out of the ordinary. Now, I'm sitting here wondering what happened. Should I be upset? I dunno. Should I say something to him? Not sure. I do know I am a bit angry, but not sure if its with myself or him. I don't feel threatened in any way, but I want to make sure it doesn't happen again. I have a history of being taken advantage of by men and abused in a few cases. I haven't had another man touch me since I've been married except in one case where a man put his hand on my leg. It totally freaked me out and I ended up basically running away from him. (we were aquaintances and it happened in a stadium while we were sitting in a tight space) Am I making too much of this?