I've been with my husband for a little over a year now. Almost all of the time I don't get aroused enough to fully enjoy sex. We have tried different things, trying out fantasies, handcuffs, etc. Nothing seems to get me wet anymore. I want to try out one of our fantasies, having sex with other people while we watch each other. The only problem with that is that if I get wet and really turned on from someone else I would feel horrible. I'm not sure what to do about us wanting to fulfill our fantasy or about getting aroused for sex. Any advice?