ok, well, being a guy, foreplay consists teasing, toucing, a lick and a suck, then finish off with a bang, but that brings me to somewhat of a disadvantage as my girlfriend just so happens to be the most difficult thing in the universe, a girl. my question is: how do i get my girlfriend warmed up before we start to play to the point that shes willing to be sexually teased, because hoping right to the action is obviously a male ideal. maybe to help answer it a little better, i can tell you that i am a complete romantic blank. i have the romantic capabilities of a rapist. what exactly gets you goin prior to the sexual foreplay, be it sweet words, music, etc? ???