Hi everyone, I'm a little curious as to what others think about this situation. Back when I first met my wife, she was somewhat adventurous sexually (of course at the time, I was still a virgin, so what did I know). Now though, it seems she has changed, or maybe it's that I've changed to being a bit more devious sexually, at least in thought since acting out the thoughts is the problem right now. Before she didn't seem to have a problem giving oral (definitely doesn't have a problem with receiving). We seemed to try many different positions, not much of that anymore. Other different things (role playing, ass play, photos, etc), nothing too extreme though back then. Fast forward to the present and I've moved on sexually, admittedly because of the internet, where you can read about and view just about any sex act you can think of...and those you would've never thought of. I mention things like light bondage, water sports, etc and there's something wrong with me of course. She wants nothing to do with those things. Those are just the things I mention to her, who knows what she'd think if she could read my mind and get to the other stuff. Am I just stuck fantasizing about everything and taking care of myself? I won't force her into any of this of course, just curious what others think about it or been in the same situation. I'm guessing this is why some men/women cheat, but that's not the thing for me so that option is out. Thanks for any thoughts!