As a 22 yr old, I would say im attractive (no pics of me have been posted yet) I am a mother of 2 and one on the way (all boys) and have a extremely high sex drive... BUT I GET NO SEX... I currently have a partner he is 28 whos sex drive is extremely low, and is not willing to compromise. When we 1st got together things of course were fresh and new, but now I do not have sex at all im lucky if I get sex once a week.. Could it be because im pregnant? This is a different person than my 2 yr olds father however the same thing happend with him sex was okay then gradually started dying down. However, he was cheating, but the person im with now I just do not see him as the cheating type... He is always working, he has 2 jobs on the weekends starting Thursday- Sunday he manages 2 night clubs in our location and also is in charge of both clubs security not only management duties. and Monday - Friday he works his day job from 5 am - 5 or 6 pm at the latest... earlies would be 2 or 3..... I def. try to be understanding of course he would be tired but I have told him that you have to have balance between home life and work... I mean what man does not enjoy waking up at night to a blow job or sex.. kissing and touching but he says hes tired and all I want to do is sex at night ( for one im not comfy with my body prego or not thats just when im most into it, but i do have sex during the day night is just my perfrence) I try to wake him to sex but he sleeps through it dead sleep, heavy sleeper, and again his excuse is I want to have sex when I no he has to be to work at 5 am... really guys is it me or is he correct???? I can lay next to him an naked and just rub on myself and in less than 2 miins he has not looked my way and is dead sleep... so I will get up and sleep on the sofa... he will get upset and wake and ask where im going... like really come on. I am not the type to cheat so if someone does not want to have sex I just try to deal with it. I was with my 2 yrs old father for most of my life.. and recent relationship of 4 yrs b4 I got with the person im on and off with now and we barely had sex again reason being end result he was cheating.. I am not the type of person to sit down and finger my self I absoultly hate that!!!!! I just grosses me out the thought of fingering myself or using a dildo... they are no help!!!!!! so I do not play with my self in that aspect. I guess I just go horny.. BUT AGAIN EVERYONE I AM ONLY 22!!!! and im in s fix in between relationships I met my sexual soul mate hes the same age as i am just an all around awesome guy and sex with him is the world... THE BEST IVE EVER HAD .. AND I AM THAT TO HIM.... we can experiment with each other we can sex for hours... quickies during the day.. just oral pleasing during the day no attachements.. both of our sex drives are high we are just compatible and have sex the bar high for others.. when me and the person im with now break up or hes not with anyone we always hook up.... thing is again im pregnant now so I cant sex my compatible mate its killing me but even more so killing me that In my heart I do not want to sex him I want to sex the person Im with now bc there is an emotional connection there!!! I love this person so much... I just sit and cry I do not know what else to do to get him to sex me the way I want and a compromise to how much I want!!!!!! HELP!!!! WHAT DO YOU THINK.. DO YOU THINK AFTER I HAVE THE BABY I SHOULD JUST GO BACK TO SEXING MY SEX MATE THE PERSON THAT I AM COMPATIBLE WITH... BUT IS SEX REALLY WORTH IT CONSIDERING ITS NOT JUST MY LIFE IM EFFECTING I ALSO HAVE CHILDREN 2 AND ONE ON THE WAY.. SO IS IT OKAY TO PLAY SEX GAMES AND LEAVE A HOME??? OR SO I JUST PUT MY NEEDS ASIDE TO BE WITH MY UNBORN CHILDS FATHER WHO DOES NOT SEX ME AT ALL ????? WHAT CAN I DO !!!!!