[Ask a Girl] no sex after having kids

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    Does you sex life or sex drive changes after having kids? My wife after having our kid we don't practice sex as much as we used to ill get once a week if I'm lucky not to mention that she doesn't like to experience at all even before we had our kid she didn't liked it. For her normal sex is you on top or bottom that's all, no dirty talking no masturbation or porn she says I have a problem cuz I like porn so I don't know wat to do anymore
     
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    My sex drive definitely change for the first year after having my first baby.
    Took a while to bring sexy back if you know what I mean.

    If your kids are under 5... I wouldn't be complaining with once a week.
     
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    Hey taken thanks so much! I know its hard but I have a sex drive like u don't have any idea, by the way I sent u a freindship request hope u add me as ur freind:eyes
     
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    I'll let ya know
    How old are your kids? Taken is absolutely right,if they are under 5,once a week is pretty good.
    It does get better though...I remember right after I had my daughter I really could not even think about sex at all for at least 6 months.And then it wasn't really any good for me until at least after a year.
    Now she is 13,and it is better then ever though :)