No nude pics, why?

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  1. BitchN

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    I would like your opinion this situation........the other day I called my cousin asked what she was doing for the day....she said she was destroying the nude pictures and vidoes of herself......she is getting divorced and don't want them brought up in court......I ask about the pics....she told me she took picks of your husband, he took pics of her and they also made videos of them having sex.....after being on this forum and hearing her, I just couldn't help but wonder WHY my husband doesn't want to take pics?

    I thought well maybe he just hasn't really thought about it.
    So last night we had the whole house to ourselves, so I got the camera and told him I wanted us to take nude pics of each other........he said no. After teasing him and doing what I do....he started taking pics.....he got into....started asking me to pose.....he also got turned on by it. So I started taking pics of him......he didn't get into at all....if anything he started to lose his hard on......so I fogot the camera and started giving him a blow job.....he did take a few pics of that......we took our time (house to ourselves) and had great sex.

    Later on that night, I'm looking through the pics on the camera.....he comes up and tells me he wants them erased.....I asked him why....he said because he doesn't want our daughter to find them.......we have sex toys....he isn't worried about that.......I asked if he wanted me to send him a pic of myself before I removed them from the camera.....he said no he already had my body imprinted into his mind he didn't need a picture......

    Here is my questions to you all.........why? Why does he not want a pic of me nude? Why does he not really want to get into trying something fun and different? I'm not suggesting a threesome or anything close to that....just have fun with each other, am I wrong for asking him to do different things?
     
  2. Barbwire

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    You asked him the question, he told you why. There's no point to asking us 'cuz we're not him. If he doesn't feel comfortable having pics around then don't push it.
     
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    Maybe he doesn't want to share you..:)

    But if you fancy nude pics then visite a professional photographer together. One that takes artist impressions and make you both happy
     
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    No I dont think so. Nothing wrong with wanting to try something fun and different together.He might just not want to share you or that they may leak out. I know My wife is the same way... she will do it, but wants to erase them as soon as we are done. I guess we are just going to have to get together and take our own photos and videos.hahaha
     
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    He has porn mags....not playboy...but triple X porn mags......what's the dirrence in having nude pics of your wife?

    I get the.....don't want our daughter to find them....but, it's ok for her to find the porn mags?
     
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    Maybe he thinks more of you than women in xxx mags...just sayin
     
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    :lol
     
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    Yep!! totaly agree. :eyes
     
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    This is to the both of you......you fell your self that it would be better for your kid/s to find porn mags.....than to find pics of your self or your wife?
     
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    BTN,
    I can sort of understand your spouse's reluctance to keep such material.
    Having similar opinion but unlike him very much enjoy taking and participating in the shoot but there is always the nagging thought that someday these could end up in the wrong hands. A simple break-in of your home, theft, loss or even accidental exposure could end up causing a lot of embarrassment & misery.
     
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    hahah..no,no,no. I agree with you....haha
    I would'nt want my daughter, if I had one, to find any kind of porn, let alone hard core xxx porn. Im all for taking some photos...hahaha. I come from and have a very open family, nudity is not an issue.:):)
     
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    Thanks Bush, that helps me to understand what he could be thinking instead of it being more personal towards me.........between the two of us he was/is the cautious one.......me......I'm the wild one..;)
     
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    from all that you've said about him, seems he's just boring, nothing else
     
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    My ex was the same way.He was very fuddy duddy when it came to sex.
    My drive was higher then his, and when I told him stuff like I masturbated,instead of being turned on he would look more disgusted and say why.He always made me feel like a freak.

    He never wanted to take pictures either or anything fun like that.
    I'm not sure if this was a factor,but he was a good deal older then me.

    He made me feel very unwanted though,and needless to say,that is why we are no longer together!
     
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    Fuddy duddy he may have been but please don't paint all of us dirty old men as boring 'caus present company objecting in the strongest terms here your Honour.
    Out of Order motion sustained councillor.....thank you Milord :)
     
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    The pics of my wife in my albums were taken by a pro photographer! It was a surprize dor my wife! She loved it!!! And i love to look at her! Wish i could brag a bit more!!
     
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    When it comes to the kid finding pictures, I would think I would be more shocked to see pictures of my parents getting it on than to see a bunch of strangers in a magazine.

    If that was the only reason he was worried, no big deal. But based on your other post I would have to agree with the others here that your man is the proverbial stick in the mud.
     
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    I'm a photographer, I have the equipment to take some very tastefull nudes, but my wife won't let me. It's all digital and even with two firewalls, she's afraid someone will get in and she'll be all over the internet...which would result in her termination from her job. I respect that, and I get to see her live all of the time so....
     
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    Yeah, I wouldn't want our daughter seeing any nude pics of us.......akward moment......

    He has always been the quiet one.......me......I was the wild crazy one.....singing back up with bands.....dancing on stage....or any high flat surface...lol......had crazy wild sex too, but the older he got the more reserved he has become......I'm just trying to figure out why?
     
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    I didn't think of someone getting into the computer.......that could be another reason.....I respect your wife, I wouldn't want to lose my job over pics either.........but we are self employeed I don't think I have to worry about being fired......although I do think he would like to fire my ass sometimes;)