No desire

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  1. Notta

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    I have been on and off this site for a few months now. I am not looking to hook up or anything. I enjoy the fact I can ask questions and respond. I had a few great moments of masturbation when I first joined. I am single and as of late no interest in masturbation or sex. It's been 3 years since I actually had sex and 4 months sine I have been horny or masturbated, is that bad? I don't understand.
     
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    You might be asexual or just have a low sex drive
     
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    It's not bad not to be horny or masturbate.
    Do you have any other health issues? Are you suffering from depression? Taking any meds?
    Maybe you should get a check up?
     
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  4. Notta

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    Yes, depression is part of it, and I am on medications for depression and diabetes. Never bothered me before. I do have a Doctors appointment soon.
     
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    The desire can go away if you are not masturbating or having sex. It's normal.
     
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    Yeah, completely normal. Any change in the depression meds can trigger me either being really horny or not horny at all. :)
     
  7. luv2taste

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    Let me know if I can help in anyway.
    By the way, how is school coming along?
     
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    Ok I have to admit it, I was intrigued by the thread headings of "No Desire" coming from @Notta!
    Of course once she explained it made sense but frankly from her past posts this seemed very unusual.
    Notta I hope you overcome this because we need you back in the scrum in SF otherwise ain't gonna be the same :(
     
  9. lustingwhispers

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    Use it or lose it!
     
  10. Notta

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    I think it's already lost:(:confused::(
     
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    I hear ya!!! :oops:
     
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    Don't give up.......................!
    It certainly sounds like you are thinking hard about it.
    Give yourself a little touch and see where that takes you.
     
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    Depression and sex don't mix much. I feel for you.
     
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    If it really bothers you just start masturbating. Watch some porn or read erotic stories if that's your thing and go for it. If not it will pass eventually.
     
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    Bottom line, if it feels good do it and it will make you feel so much better ;)