Ok, just wanting some outside opinions on my situation... Married almost 20....first 5 years wife was more aggressive, initiating...she was my first and usually complained I didn't initiate enough! And oral sex was great. She'd wake me up with it some days....in the car....69....no issues here. Fast forward and she stops doing blowjobs.... And I go along with it, as there's plenty other to do. But then I start to miss it and she won't do it. And I mean she totally gets angry if I bring it up!! I've asked her a thousand times why and she has no answer....just "I don't like it!" Well she liked it before. This has grown and grown until its a big issue now. I know to many it seems petty....but it starts to wear on you, like, "what is wrong with me?" I work around the house,etc.... and we have sex about twice a week now that I have gotten more aggressive. But this nags at me...and a few times in the heat of things I've asked her and it's all over. Yeah, ok, if I love her I let it go, right? Well by the same token, if she loves me, why not once a year? She has said "it will NEVER happen again so get over it!" And I feel like saying, "ok while we're issuing ultimatums...it WILL happen again just maybe not with you!" Just wondering what other opinions might be or tips on what to do...thx!