[Ask a Girl] Nipples

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    I've heard everything from women having orgasms to being indifferent or even irritated by having their breasts caressed. I love to caress and fondle my wife's breasts when we're not making love, and her nipples get hard after only few seconds of touching. She says that she doesn't enjoy having her nipples made hard, and has no feeling when they do, but it's hard for me to believe that something isn't happening that makes them spring to attention like they do. When she does cowgirl, I try to make them hard, but her focus is "down there" and they stay soft.

    Is it possible that there are feelings that she isn't aware of when I caress her breasts? If so, I'd like to try to cultivate them.
     
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    Nipples can become erect due to sexual arousal, but they can also stand up due to an autonomic response. If she says it doesn't do anything for her, she is probably right.
     
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    Sorry to hear that :cry
     
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    I get aroused from having my nipples played with, never had an orgasm from it, but I get aroused. ha! But I know for some people it does absolutely nothing.
     
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    My nipples are pretty much always errect. They are also very sensative. I don't mind them being played with while I am horny, but if I'm not....rather just don't touch the nips. It almost feels numb. And
    ever had a numb spot that someone touches?? Its an odd feeling, if I can even feel it at all.
     
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    I have a friend who toys with her nipples every so often, but she says it's mostly just ticklish and not really arousing at all.
     
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    when im having sex of any kind, stimulating my left nipple can make me cum right away....
     
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    I can have nipple play all day everyday! I love when my nipples are hard, I get so horny and just want someone sucking my tits
     
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    oh boy! luv me some nips
     
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    I would be loving this a lot, so would you get my undying attention :)
     
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    Unfortunately,My nipples are always hard,I get teased a lot,Sometimes its embarrassing:oops:
     
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    And fortunately for us, your nipples are always hard....:D:p
     
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    All this nipple talk really makes me horny for someone to suck my tits! Just started my cycle and usually that's about the only time it might bother me, right now it wouldn't bother me
     
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    all this talk is making ME horny :)
     
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    I bet it is!!! I know my nipples are hard, and getting a little hot & bothered myself.
     
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    I used to get absolutely nothing from anyone touching my nipples or breasts, but they'd still get hard.

    I'm happier to let a sexual partner touch them now and I've started to notice that actually get a bit aroused from it. Maybe the changes hormones are having on my body.
     
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    I wouldn't tease. I like your nipples. I'm gonna go and look at them now.
     
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    Wow, old thread. But seeing as @pbs is still an active member here....

    They sometimes just get hard when it's cold, similar to having goosebumps. Or even just when feeling a little ticklish (again, similar to having goosebumps). Have you even had a sensation of something slightly brushing the back of your neck (like your hair or something) that gave you a shiver and goosebumps? It didn't necessarily feel good (or make you horny), just gave you goosebumps. I guess for her it's probably like that - the sensitivity automatically made her body react. It doesn't necessarily mean she enjoyed it happening.

    Some women's nipples can be extremely sensitive (possibly for biological reasons based on their primary function), and their nipples being hard doesn't necessarily equate to being turned on. Nipples are not little penises. ;)
     
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