When is the right time to discuss having sex with the girlfriend?? We've been going out for about 5 and a bit months now and I would like to move things to the next level but I am unsure what it would do to the relationship if I ask her if she wants to have sex.... Is it too soon at 5 months??? I am unsure if she is waiting for me to ask or just dosn't want to do it or what? She's not very suggestive and dosn't exectly tell me what she wants, but thats the way she is! I am a 17 yr old virgin so I guess sex is kinda important too me at the moment, since the guys talk out it a lot (all boys high school). I really like the girl and she means a lot to me, so I don't want to stuff things up... I don't really mind if I get rejected but it may get strange if I ask and she does reject me? What should I do? Just wait till she comes out and saids she wants it or what?