I know the format of forums since using them before for gaming while at school etc. Puss in Boots suggested I better give a little finer and more formal introduction. I'll try not to reveal to many details but effectively this is me below: I have already started a couple threads and started posting so some may already have identified certain aspects of my posts. I try to be genuine and give a full answer and if I can I will relate someone else experience back to me but that is difficult since I have little experience. I am however very interested in discussing the topic of sex people in a forum since I dont have to face them and I will only get to know them in this scene whereas talking about it with people I already know I find embarrasing and disconcerting. I am 20 and a kiwi from new zealand south of the ausies, who are very good at taking the piss whenever we beat them at Rugby or somesuch sport. I joined this forum in hopes of finding the necessary information so I can make accurate distinctions of my own sexuality and the activities that come from that. Another reason is that I find I am an addict when it comes to porn and sex. I have been notified by other members how natural this is for a male of my age to do with testosterone and hormones. I am open if anyone wants to send me a private message or something and would appreciate if anyone can give me tips on life, sex, relationships or anything else related maybe through their own life experiences or maybe what they have read elsewhere. One thing I will do is always remain openminded when it comes to others posting on forums and will try not to make judgements on others. Thanks and hope I can be of some help to some people or perhaps I'll just find my own information. Happy posting.