Newbie to the site-First thread. with questions.

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Kpussy, Feb 27, 2013.

  1. Kpussy

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    A couple of things I'm tryin to do.. practice deep throating and practicing anal. Just starting out anal using markers and A 4 prong back massager that I see as a double ended dildo!. Lol. But also I have a question. I watched a video tonight of (which isn't new to me) anal fucking.. creampie anal, why do the chicks push the cum out? And sometimes they release the air too, that would be embarrassing for me. And maybe pushing the cum out is just something people like to see? Which I don't mind doing that part. But I'm so afraid of actually having a dirty area back there when a session in anal is over.

    So, I'll be here for a bit, checking out the site.. oh and also, I didn't realize this was something I would LOVE to do. Fuck my urethra. And it turns me on so much to watch a male do it to himself too. Wish I could be part of it.
     
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    its porn- guys apparently like to see their cum sliding out of the girl they just banged.... i dunno, i usually turn it off before the cum shot because i don't really get off on those. you should look in to various sizes of anal plugs, as those are shaped specifically for anal sex, and can be work while doing other things as well. it takes some time to get the muscles used tot he stretching, and depending on how big the guy that you are sleeping with is, anal can be hard to achieve. you have to be relaxed and take your time, or you could seriously injure yourself. trust me, anal injuries are NOT fun. as far as deep throating- if you don't like the taste of a dildo, and i recommend a jelly one that can curve to the degree of your throat, try using a flavored lube. don't just start off shoving it deep either, again, you could hurt yourself. it will take time to get the gag reflex in line. you want your throat open and straight as much as possible.
     
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    Yeah for the deep throat practice, I just used a banana. And went down a little farther each time.

    And how does a person keep the inside of the rectum so clean???
     
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    buy an anal douche - easy to use and keeps things as clean as poss.
     
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    yes- anal douche. also, make sure you go to the bathroom an hour or two beforehand, take a shower after. there's no sure-fire way to eliminate 100% of the mess, but there are ways to limit it. You can use an anal douche with water, i think they make cleaners as well, but water is safest.
     
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    cool thanks!!
     
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    Thats awesome. Thank you so much!
     
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    Hi, Just let me know, I have sex on my mind all the time, Sexless Marrage
     
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    Another good way to anal train is to get a set of butt plugs that graduate in size. Easy to use and can actually be worn for long periods of time under clothing to help hold them in. Great way to loosen up and get used to the feeling.
     
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    I cant wait to try a plug that I can hold in while in at work!!! Man that would be so hot!
     
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    Hey so I thought I would update some of you. I have tried the plugs.. I started with way to big of one but now I am starting to like things in my ass.
     
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    Welcome to the club ;)
     
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