new to sex, need advice on cowgirl position

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  1. lunabugg13

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    i have been sexually active for 2 months now. had only 1 partner. hes had 8 partners. he wants me to be on top:ugh. but i keep telling him no because idk wat to do wen im up there and the LAST thing i want to do is make an ass of myself. does anyone have any suggestions or helpful tips i culd use?:eek:eek
     
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    In my humble :)rofl) opinion, if you're comfortable enough to have sex with this man, you should be comfortable enough to risk making an ass of yourself. Because, of course, he won't think of it that way. A relationship is based on trust, communication, understanding, flexibility, and the ability to laugh things off when necessary.

    The other thing is to ask him and encourage him to guide you. He knows what he has in mind when he's asking you to be on top. Have him tell you, get you in position, put his hands on you and show you how to move. It can be quite erotic when your partner does that.
     
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    Thank god there's people like you to guide them. My advice would have been "less than perfect". Not because of lack of experience mind you, but lack of caring.

    Sex has been a part of my life since I was 5. Are there really people out there that struggle with it? It's not rocket science. I feel sorry for people that struggle with sex.
     
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    uh....5 yrs old?
     
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    I'm saying what I did as a kid. Nothing more.
     
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    thats pretty fucking disgusting!!!
    i dont see how you are proud of that to this day. and your attitude is all wrong.
    luckily for you im not a mod
     
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    Actually I thought you simply forgot to put a 1 in front of the 5 ....but thanks for straightening me out on that....
     
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    In my humble ( :jerkit ) opinion, everyone struggles with sex. We wonder about it, we experiment and explore, we work things out with every new partner, we try and learn and read and ask our friends, or pour our hearts out to them. Everyone has looked like an ass sometime. Everyone has had an oops, an ouch, an embarrassment.

    No it isn't, meaning nothing is going to blow up if you have bad sex sometimes. Unless you're into some very risky sex.
     
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    Just get on his horse and ride. It will come a lot more natural than you think. It's a pretty basic position actually.

    xx
     
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    Actually....yes we do.....underage sex may not be discussed within the forums:tsktsk
    And thats why I have edited your post.
    Its normally an automatic ban but since your new I'll give you one chance.
    Any further infractions and you'll be history.
    regards HW
     
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    ride your horse with pleasure and plugin right...then just try you will enjoy it no headgame :)
     
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    Back when I first starting having sex, I felt awkward on top but the very fact that you are having sex leaves you in that raw vulnerable, exposed state anyway. That goes for him as much as you. Shyness will vanish with time, meanwhile just follow his lead. I assume he knows you're not as experienced as him and he'll be sympathetic. With time and confidence you'll change from a timid lamb to a raging tigress. It will happen. :)
     
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    Just do what feels good to you. You can control depth and angle of penetration and speed. You can grind back and forth side to side or up and down. You can sit straight uplay on top of him or lean over so he can lick your breasts. If you do what feels good to you I guarantee that he will enjoy it also.
     
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    I had a girl do me that way once....I rolled her over on top of me and she says "I dont know what to do"....So I grabbed each of her ass cheeks in my hands and started her off.....Within a minute she had the idea and was working fine......
     
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    I'm a big fan of this visually. My wife has struggled with the position but one time out of the blue she did an amazing job of it, and she did it again for me one time after that but since then she gets worn out quickly as though she forgot how she did it before.

    There's lots of variations on the position. I think one of the ways that might be a little more ergonomic would be if you are over top of him on your hands and needs and lowered back onto his cock, then kind of go back and forth as if he was behind you doing it doggy style, but you got into it and started rocking back and forth.

    Personally I think it's sexy to see when a girl rocks her hips. And I think it merits a video link to show an example.

    Ride a Cock - Free Porn Videos - YouPorn
     
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    Personally I enjoy being on top so I can be in control other than that take it slow a lot of guys like reverse cowgirl which is mad hot but I like facing them so I can watch their face as I go up and down then I have the option of placing my hands on their chest lifting my hips up and down while circling them slowly or leaning back resting my hands on his thighs so he can rub my clit as I ride him even though either position is perfect for him to play with your breasts
     
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    thank you so very much for this link. it was very helpful w that and other things as well. so again, thank you.
     
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    just climb on stick it in your pussy and either rub n grind or bounce up n down. rotate your hips in a circular motion, just slam that ass down til you hear that clapping sound and you know your doing a great job.
     
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    Love that clapping sound!!!!
     
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    I too, love it when they applaud...:D......but we have problems with this position...she says it's because her lil' legs are just too short to straddle me....she seems to enjoy positions where I'm I'm control more than the ones where she is, so it's ok ...but it would be fun once Ina while...