New to anal play

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  1. JizraCock

    JizraCock New Member

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    I am very open to trying new things as i feel i have a high sex drive. About a year ago i tried experimenting with anal play by myself. Starting with a finger and then a while later anal beads.

    I'm not sure whether anal beads are meant to be able to make you orgasm by themselves. I havn't seemed to be able to achieve this yet.

    So i feel that i should try prostate stimulators. Does anyone have any suggestions for what to start out with here?? :)
     
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    i let a gurl use a dildo a couple times while ive gotten a close a few times ive never gotten off with anal play alone but it made me pop off explosively while she stroked me at same time
     
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    In my experience, you will likely only orgasm from anal penetration if the prostate is stimulated. Beads just aren't going to do that. I've had success with realistic dildos only.
     
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    Start out with lubrication. Lots of it. And the best advise I can give you is to not be in a hurry. Take anal sessions slowly and make it sexy for yourself or your partner. Remember that you'll probably experience discomfort or pain, but that you'll relax in a minute and work up to the kinky stuff. Don't be in a rush or you'll have bad results. If you do it right, anal play is bliss. :)
     
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    From personal experience ive used the end of a hair brush, and a carrot. It hasnt gotten me to orgasm, but maybe if it were attatched to a chair or something I could ride it, so it would feel like the real thing. Id like to achieve a male anal orgasm, but no success yet, any other suggestions?
     
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    There is a walnut shaped bump inside that needs to be fondled repeatedly to achieve the orgasm. I've performed this on a male and he described it as absolutely amazing and spontaneous. Good luck!
     
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    Sounds like something I need a friend to assist me with...id better start looking! Could a vibrater help me achieve my goal? Id gladly purchase one of ot called for it.
    Ive tried a few times inserting fingers, but I guess I myself cant get the right angle? Thats my guess at least, anyone got any tips?
     
  8. Dragon_Fire

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    There are toys around especially designed for male anal play.
     
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    Is a partner required?
     
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    No some prostate toys are curved to make playing by yourself easily.
     
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    Sweet. Thanks :D