New study on what kind of porn women and men watch

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    I am surprised by #1 being 3somes for women.
     
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    Why? what did you expect?

    I have to agree with both list (from what I know of his preferences) although I think I'd rank lesbian a little higher and soft core wouldn't be on the list at all, we'll just put anal in it's place. lol
     
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    #1 Soft core for women with drama.
     
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    I recently came across a study (from 2015) which indicated - shockingly enough - that women watch 6x as much lesbian porn as men (on a per-capita basis among porn consumers), and that most of them were totally or nearly strait women who expressed a total or near-total lack of desire to actually have lesbian sex. Simply a fantasy enjoyed only as a fantasy with no desire to make it a reality. Go figure!
     
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    Oh no, no drama for me. I didn't even care for 50 Shades of Grey.
     
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    For me, it's not a 'no desire to make it a reality' I'm happily married and to have sex with another woman would be cheating and a three-some might make me a little jealous so I'm realistic in the fact that it'll probably never happen but it is a fantasy. A paid professional might be able to help us :p
     
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    You are cracking me up CLE32793 :p Thanks for giving some honest/open answers :) Anything stand out or was a bit of a surprise about this "study"?
     
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    Well, they didn't ask me, lol. I use redtube, did they include that in their study? (I watch a lot of Bonnie Rotten) I just think a lot of ladies feel it's dirty and they should be ashamed to watch that's why the soft core is there (IMO). For example, I have 3 sisters, only myself and one other will even discuss porn or such topics. The other two are prudes, for lack of a better word, and I'm sure they would turn down the hubs for any kind of 'freaky' request so you can forget watching or doing anything to get themselves in the mood for said hubs. So no, I didn't find it surprising and nothing really stood out for me, just another example of how different we all are. :)
     
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    And you are welcome :D
     
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    So for ladies the top 5:
    1. Threesomes
    2. Oral sex
    3. Softcore (non-explicit sex)
    4. Gang bang (one woman and three or more men)
    5. Large penises
    All, aside from #3, seem out of character for women in the surface, but when compared to what women report as their fantasies seems to fall right in line. Threesomes and gangbangs seem more male fantasy, but im guessing the appeal to women is the prospect of sexual satisfaction with little to no effort on her part, which isn't an easy thing in real life. Large penises and oral sex could be construed as curiosity, but I think it falls in line with what many women don't want to admit to: that when it comes to seeking pure carnal pleasure, a bigger penis is preferred. Most women have invested in the feminist idea that men care too much about the size of their penises, so to confirm the cause of our insecurities could be seen as a step back for gender relations.
     
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    Based on my experience, my wife prefers a large penis to a smaller one. She likes mine for her ass though. As for porn, we both watch mfm threesomes with creampies and bdsm porn. She gets really turned on watching a woman bound and forcibly taken, that always gets her going. That goes against everything we have been taught about women, but I did read a study where one of the top fantasies of women is a rape fantasy. Not that they want to be raped, but the loss of control and being taken excites them.

    I'm curious about the women on SF and what they think about this porn list.
     
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    The majority of people just follow whatever fads are popular. All the categories listed are popular on all the porn sites you can find right now, because that is what the producers are into, so obviously it's the easiest porn to find and watch. If the porn industry started making other kinds of porn more frequently, then those categories would also become more popular.

    Also, all of those categories listed are usually soft core, because soft core porn is the most popular kind of porn you find on all popular porn sites these days. I don't think most people actually know what hardcore porn is.
     
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    Every woman I have ever known has been more of a freak than any man I have ever known LoL. I don't mind 4 and 5 but I absolutely hate foreplay and soft core porn. And usually large penises are in porn anyway so that's a given.

    I think women admit they like big dicks all the time, that's why it's such a popular thing and why all male pornstars have big dicks. I just think a lot of people have a misconception of what big actually is, I had the same misconception for YEARS. When I looked at pornstars I thought they were huge and I still do consider them huge, but their actual measurements aren't as big as some people think. You can even find dildos that are molded after them and measure it yourself to see. They say average size is 6-7 inches, but in my experience average is a lot smaller than that. I swear most guys range around 4 inches and I've even seen smaller than that many times.
    Society makes 7 inches sound like it is really tiny, but the fact is a lot of those male pornstars are truly only 7 inches long insertable, but they end up measuring the balls in their measurements, they do the same thing for dildos too. So if you buy a 9 inch realistic dildo with a suction cup base, only 7 inches of it is actually insertable. You have to buy a 10 or 11 inch dildo in order to get 9 inches insertable.
    A 7 inch dick looks big to me. 7 inches is a lot. Or maybe I'm just so used to seeing penises that aren't even half that size, but still 7 inches and around 6 inches girth looks huge, and I think most women would probably mistake that to be 9 inches or more because of what porn does to our concept of the metric system, but it's really not.
    I once thought I would love to be destroyed by a gigantic cock, but considering it doesn't seem to exist, I bought a dildo that is truly 9 inches insertable, but the damn thing is literally 9 inches in girth, it is massive, and while I still managed barely, it was definitely not as good as my favourite 6 inch dildo that i can take balls deep, which by the way I literally thought was 8 inches for my entire life until I finally got around to measuring it lol.
     
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    I 100% agree with that. In fact, my porn of choice is gangbang. Not the abusive shit, but the well done, sexy stuff. If I'm going to watch a fucking hot bitch get fucked, I want it to be by a dozen beautiful cocks.
     
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    See that doesn't surprise me at all. I've never been with a woman who didn't fantasy about being fucked from behind while sucking a cock. Living it out is a whole nother thing but, as best I can tell, having sex with two members of the opposite sex is just about as universal as a fantasy can get!
     
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    Yeah threesomes seem to be equally desired by either sex, but how they play out seems different. Men seem to prefer coupling with 2 bi women, and women with 2 straight guys. Guys seem to take their SOs sexual fulfillment from the third in higher regard than girls..
     
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    My wife enjoys watching gay porn, two young guys with hard bodies pressing against each other and seeing his cock sliding deep in that ass turns her on to the point she wants me to fuck her while a guy fucks me at the same time, to which I am open too... All about making her happy.. Whatever she wants, I will do it, she wants to also watch me and another guy go at it.. Doing it all.. Sucking dick 69, fucking etc...
     
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