Hi everyone been reading here for awhile now and though i would make a post. Basically i am pretty new as regards to relationships etc etc, but i recently met this guy and have been on about 5-6 dates (2-3 weeks) so i guess you could call him my boyfriend. The thing is although i am not a virgin i am pretty worried about the physical side of the relationship. This sounds bad but i have been with like 4 people and 3 were one night stands. The first was with a boyfriend but we only did it twice as it was very painful and i was worried about doing it again so the next times happened with alcohol and bad judgement on my side. The last time wasn't painful or anything but i am just worried that i am going to be really bad. This guy is so sweet and seems really really nice and i like him alot i just don't want it go pear shaped. Am i being paranoid?