Gday all, I've been seeing a new girl lately. We haven't had sex yet, but we've fooled around a bit. The thing is, she told me a couple of days ago that she's never had an orgasm in her life, from any kind of stimulation. I can't remember exactly what she said when we talked about it, but it was something akin to not wanting to feel like she's not in control of her body. I read this as a problem with fully relaxing. She's not inexperienced sexually. She lost her virginity at 15 and has had steady boyfriend/s since then. We're both 18. So I know I'm aiming to achieve an extremely difficult task here, but from those who have experience in this kind of situation, what do you suggest? Thoughts on the matter?