Hello, my name is Tiffany, im 29 and new to this. I was reading on here before I joined and decided to join and post. Sooo, I've been in a relationship with my much older boyfriend (23 years older) for almost 9 years. There has been sexual issues from the beginning off and on almost the entire relationship, especially with some "erectile problems" i have always been extremely sexual in nature and i think it's way too much for him to handle. Im always extremely sexually frustrated, to the point its depressing, but no matter how much i complain or attempt to sexually excite him he can only do it when he's good and ready. Im to the point im wishing i had someone else but i cant do that cuz we have children and responsibilities together. i guess im wondering if anyone has any ideas for me, advice, personal experience or just anything to try and help this situation.