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  1. roundabout

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    Id just like to start off by saying I am 30 and my new wife is 25. I wasnt bestowed the greatest member in the world, but i am for the most part content with what I have. (what guy wouldnt want a bit extra :p)... Anyways we have always had good sex and a rather active sex life (not as active as it could be but we dont go through any dry spills.) We have been together for going on 5 years and have a rather open communication on what we like and what feels good. I have recently realized I am able to vaginally stimulate her to orgasm and its a great feeling, but the work involved to hit the spot is a bit hard to do due to my size vs what i feel has to do with the sex partners she has had in the past that were a tad more well endowed. Honestly if I could find a hidden 1/2 inch I would be more than happy with our sex life and was wondering if you guys had any ideas on how i could achieve this. I am 6'4 and weigh in at around 250 (so i am a tad bigger than i should be) but i dont really appear to be all that fat... i do have that fat pad everyone complains about and it does come in handy, but i dont know if it will really open up any extra length in the end. Am i just damned to occasionally get her off in this fashion or is there something i can do about it? we try all kinds of sex positions and she is very straight with me as to which get her off, but as ive said... it requires a lot of work to reach it. I dont know if ive rambled enough to make this confusing yet but if i did im sorry lmao.
     
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    My husband is not as well endowed as some would be. Certainly not as much as my pervious sexual partners but he can get me off better then any of them.

    The one position that without fail will get me off vaginally is if I'm on my back and he's on his knees in front of me. Not missionary, literally on his knees. I normally toss a pillow or two under my bottom to raise me a bit and he'll spread my legs wide, placing pressure on either side of my groin and do quick, shallow thrusts in and out. Holy mother of God is it amazing!

    Try that out if you haven't already. :)

    If you're looking to add size, pills, creams etc don't work. Don't waste your money. They make slip on extenders though. They look like condoms but with an additional 3 inch cyber skin dildo on the end. My hubs has used it once or twice on me when he's wanting to fill me extra good. They hold into place well and don't slip off. If you wear a condom and you're mildly sensitive, you can still get off with that over you. :)
     
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    I know all about the creams and pills and such while doing my own research on the interwebs and know they have no effect but to take money from unfortunate men or women force feeding it to their men... I would rather not have to get any attachments to myself as i would prefer doing this myself. I believe that position you spoke of is what sets her up for these cervix orgasms? I do not know what else to call them other than that... Its not a G-spot because that position you spoke of drives her mad but wont get her off... its only when i basically poke fun around her cervix that she truly gets off. I do not really know how to explain it, but its harder than hell to do (that much is certain) I guess I am just forever damned to put up the big fight. :)
     
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    Could it be her anterior fornix that your getting into?

    Anytime we speak of " male enhancement" it seems the consensus is that it just can't be done... Yet I feel otherwise..but I've been called a liar on this forum for talking about it, so it must just be my imagination running away. ( or maybe all those convex mirrors I put in my house) ...:D
     
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    Your best chance of gaining size would be by taking advantage of hidden length you don't know you already have. Yes, that't right... You already have it. How do you find it? The answer is actually quite simple. You need to loose weight. The fit weight for being 6'4"lies between 162-176 pounds. You say you weigh 240. According to the famous Dr. Oz, loosing weight really does work.

    Losing weight improves the sex lives of men in another way. "If you lose 35 pounds, if you're a male, you are gaining one inch of penis length," he says. Often when a man is carrying a lot of extra weight, Dr. Oz says a fat bundle builds up and starts to surround the shaft. As a man drops the weight, that fat starts to recede.

    With your stated weight, you are 39 pounds over the high end of fit weight for your size, so you you should not have a great deal of trouble with proper diet and exercise. Proper diet and exercise also helps with blood flow and sex drive.

    I can attest that this is true. Over several years, I became 35 pounds overweight. I not long ago have realized that I have lost length due to it. Something that I am actually working on myself. Not really so much for the penis length, but for other health reasons. But, gaining back my full length is an additional incentive.

    You can read Dr. Oz's actual take on this at Oprah's website.
    Paging Dr. Oz - Oprah.com

    xx
     
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    Ive heard about this as well and have had mixed reviews on the matter. Some women say that if they are on top and that fat pad isnt there it can be like doing a dining table with no supporting cushion to soften the more frantic thrusting. others say it doesnt bother them. Ive been this size since my sophomore year in highschool and have yet to gain or lose a lb. I am almost afraid of changing anything in this perspective but it wouldnt really hurt my feelings to be skinnier. For my frame though im not that over weight... most of my weight i can contribute to leg and arm strength. I dont have a 6 pack but im not fat (from what i would call fat anyways)...

    I ask her about her ex and she said that he never gave her the satisfaction i do for multiple reasons. First off he was larger and would more often then not hurt more than he helped the situation. His stamina wasnt near mine either and was more or less out to bust a nut and be done so to speak. This was a bit of an ego boost and hammered it into her that i was not out for that but honestly trying to aid our sex life in the right direction and i needed proper information to do so.

    The information that barblues gave sounds about accurate... if that spot you are specifying is like the clit and feels to be close to the same size if not a slight bit bigger, than that is what she is experiencing. She said it felt like it was cervical as well so I believe you are pretty spot on in that.
     
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    It would feel like a little " pocket " at the end of her ( also called the cul- de- sac)... that the head of your cock will feel like it's almost " popping " in and out of...if you get the angle and tempo/ pressure right, it can be very pleasurable for her. But it's odd that sometimes it's much more pleasurable for her than others, and We haven't been able to figure out why...
     
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    This feels like an expanded version of her clit to be honest.. it doesnt feel like any form of recession but the opposite.. the only thing i dont like about it is when its exposed to constant stimulation her entire body including every inner muscle she has loosens and can get hard to even feel myself in her lol This only lasts for a few seconds at most...
     
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    Sounds like we need Rawdog...lol.. He was a member here that I think had more knowledge about the female sexual anatomy than most women.. Or doctors for that matter...Lol. He could tell ya I'm sure . But he's never on anymore...
     
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    Im not dr myself lol I can only give you what we experience. She slightly agreed to my terminology
     
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    There is a proven method of penis enlargement they use in Africa that involves tying a rock to your penis and letting it hang there. They have a specific name for it, that I do not recall.
    Another proven method, is hitting your penis with a hammer till it turns black. Everybody knows that black penises are bigger.
     
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    Best post I've seen here in six months.... Lmao.
     
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    Wow... then i could honestly say i am black where it matters..... brilliant lmao
     
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    That is awesome lol!
     
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    Jelqing. Google it, find a demonstration video on the web. That's all I'm going to say.:pics
     
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    Ive actually been informed that this does show results but can have adverse effects in the long run?
     
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    Well, and I'm not sure if he has the largest in the world, or just recorded (and alive) but he's rather lacking socially.

    If size was the only factor in non-pornographic sexual encounters that mattered, many people would lead boring lives (boring meaning without sex- though I could definitely see myself living a life like that and being fine with as I did so for around 22 years).

    Also- width is where it's at. I can't remember when I started to prefer the visual appearance of thicker penises. But man-oh-man a lot of them are beautiful.
     
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