Hey all. Ive been curious for a while to become involved in a sexual forum. I feel like all the ones I have been lurking into have been too scammy, so I hope I get some good info here when I need it. Anyways, I just turned 24y/o and like any other man, I am really open to new sex right now. I just ended a 2+ year relationship because well, I just wasn't ready to settle down when she wanted to. I came into the sex game pretty late, but now here is just so much I want to do with women. Since then I have been pretty much single, but have made out a few times with this other girl that plays hard to get, and I just got another girls # last weekend so hopefully that goes somewhere fun. So with that intro I do have a huge question to ask. It seems that EVERY time I find a new girl and she reaches down expecting a hard penis, its nowhere to be found. Like the first time I made out with the girl stated above, she wanted to see how big it was, went south, but found a soggy baby carrot lol. But Im turned on by the kissing and I feel good but just cant get it even remotely hard for some reason wtf!? This has happens every time when its the first time and its the most embarassing thing ever b/c girls blame themselves and cut me off. Whats the issue, Im not nervous. Anyone else come across this. Advise?