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  1. sinner

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    Hi. I'm a 45 year old guy. Married 20 years to a wonderful lady and fantastic lover. Don't ask me why but a couple of months ago a cheated for the first time ever. I was instantly sorry and feel very guilty. She has no idea. I've considered confessing to her but I feel like I would just mess up our lives. The thing is... I really like sex. I figure if I talk about it a little here then I can focus on how green the grass is where I am instead of wandering. Anyway. I hope yall don't mind me putting my two cents in once in a while
     
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    Welcome
     
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    Thanks. Hot avatar. Makes me wanna go home tonight and titty fuck my wife.
     
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    Welcome to SF !!!!!!
     
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    Thanks. I liked the pics you posted.
     
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    Welcome to SF.
    I think it's the best idea to suffer it alone. My feeling is it won't help anything to tell her about it, it will only hurt her. Talk all you want here to get it off your chest, but it's something you'll carry with you. Use it as a lesson learned and it can give you more strength to resist in the future. There are a couple of recent threads debating cheating that have cover many points of view and opinions.
     
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    Thanks I'll look for those threads.
     
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    Thanks. I liked your story "tonight". I'm not really into rough stuff but that was some good stuff.
     
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    welcome
     
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    Thanks :D I used to be into rough stuff in real life.. now I just stick to it in my fantasies ;)
     
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    Thank you sinner !!! what are you so sinfull for doing ?
     
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    I feel guilty about straying from my wife. She deserves exclusive access to my man parts and I shared with someone else. She's very understanding. She has let me know that I can satisfy myself if I need too but I should keep it to myself. I won't ever touch another woman but I ike sex too much to avoid all temptations. Talking about here is a good outlet. Maybe I'll even learn some new tricks for her.
     
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    Sorry for asking, i dont know what i was thinking, I really did read your intro post, just being an idiot today. LOL
     
  16. sinner

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    No problem.
    Forgive and forget I say. And thanks again for the inspiration.
     
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    Welcome to SF. I'm a fairly new member myself but I've been fairly active. There are lots of good people here, and plenty of good convo to be had.

    As for your cheating, well, you've already been to my thread, so you know my view on things of that nature. That said, what you do is up to you. Part of me thinks that one would owe it to their SO to fess up, and whatever happens is part of the consequences to be accepted. The other part thinks that if one is truly remorseful and absolutely will never do it again, then what the partner doesn't know won't hurt her. No sense in making her suffer for a trespass she did not commit.

    In any case, feel free to speak further on this in my thread if you'd like. More information and points of view always help things.