New Girl in Colorado

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    Hey All, i'm very new to all this forum stuff so please be patient! I came to this site looking to get some ideas on how to pull my ultra conservative parter out of his sexual shell. I'm a fairly kinky girl and need some ideas! Thanks
     
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    Welcome! :) I'm sure you'll find good info here.
     
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    ask away..... i'm full of bad advice that i'd love to share...lol
     
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    I hope so!!
     
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    How can i get my man to be more agressive in the bedroom. I always have to initate sex and then he is into it but it is always very vanilla sex. No oral on me i'm always on top i dont even know if he understands what a clit is for!
     
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    Hi, there and welcome. I'm new and trying to learn waht I should be doing.
     
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    well, i always say that communication is the key to everything.....you have to be able to talk to each other and be HONEST!!! i believe that when two people love each other AND they talk honestly with one another ,then nothing can stop ya...have u tried simply telling him what you like?
    i will say this tho...if the conversation is sexual...try talking about it when youre NOT having sex....telling him what to do when he's in the act of doing something may make him feel like he's doing something "wrong" and us men, while we try to look tough, sometimes we are kinda fragile about how we are sexually...especially early on in life..
     
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    Thanks for the response. I think we have great communication and great sex. I will take your advice and put it to use tonight.
     
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    Welcome. You've definitely come to the right place. :) You may want to post a thread in a forum for additional responses and more ideas.
     
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    Tinkerbell is the name of my niece
     
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    Hi welcome to the forum, PM me if ya ever wanna chat :p


    great advice as always..... :)

     
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    Welcome. I'm from Colorado too.
     
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    I have the same problems with my girl. I always initiate, and she shy's away from oral. I bought a porn, so we could watch it together. Hoping maybe she could see something she wanted to try. lets just say it didn't go over well. The sex isn't bad, but just boring doing the same stuff all the time
     
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    Welcome to :sf, sorry I'm late to the game.
     
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    Welcome Tinkerbell!
     
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    Welcome.

    As far as "boring" sex is concerned, maybe he just has less interest in pleasing you as you have in pleasing him. Hate to be such a pessimist, but speaking from experience, you can't coerce sexual enthusiasm. Either you have it or you don't.
     
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    Where there is life there is hope ;)