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  1. amy4you

    amy4you New Member

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    I have been getting acquainted with my nezt door neighbor since we moved in last month .He is an old guy but not bad looking.He has been giving me glimpses of his cock very discreetly.I am sure that he would like me to give him a blow job and I am seriously considering doing it.He is so nice and he helps me out whenever I need something done.I would never tell my husband.Is that considered adultery?
     
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    That would totally depend upon some variables...
    short answer: YES!

    but...
    **If your in a swinging relationship. that may change things.
    **would you consider your husband going-down on another girl "adultry"?

    Mostly, communication between you and your spouse would be the key thing to answer your question.
    bring up a conversation about sex and sneak in "do you consider oral sex 'cheating'?"
    and see what his reaction is...
    it's better to get the answer from him in some way (that is safe) rather than risk destroying the relationship.
     
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    Yes, thats cheating for sure.
     
  4. amy4you

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    What if I just masturbate him?
     
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    see my first post...
    it'd also apply here.

    "cheating" has no world-standard.

    My wife has kissed other men on the lips (yes, other than family).
    they weren't passionate kisses, but still. I don't consider that a 'cheating' act.
    other men might.
    A Friend of mine (at a pool party) came up behind my wife as she was talking to me and he grabbed her breast.
    He did it to be funny and we were all having fun.
    I didn't think anything wrong. he is a good friend that I trust fully. he wouldn't hit on my wife. he was just being funny.
    I thought it was hillarious. My wife was shocked at my reaction.
    So, that's why I say "It's all in the eye of the SO whether or not it's 'cheating'"
     
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    If you can't tell your husband about it, then you probably shouldn't do it. I'd be willing to bet that once he gets one blowjob or handjob, he's going to push for more. Are you willing to do more? Are you willing to risk getting caught? Because chances are good that you will.

    I'm wondering WHY exactly you want to do this for him? Just because he's nice to you? If word gets out, all the men on your block are going to show up offering to trim your hedges. And then what are you going to tell your hubby?

    Honey, just because a man is nice to you doesn't mean you owe him a handjob. Even if he is flashing his cock at you. It just means he's horny and lonely.
     
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    If you don't want your husband doing it then you shouldn't do it.
     
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    What is this some kind of a trick question? I think I smell a troll. IN MY OPINION

    First off, he is giving you "discreet" glimpses of his cock? Oh come on, now! You mean to tell me you have been there a month and he's showing you cock?

    Secondly, you wonder if you sucked him off if you'd be cheating on your husband? Give me a break! Just because the old man is helping you around the house doesn't mean you owe him a blowjob.

    I am incredulous here.
     
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    Yes it is cheating BIG TIME...You go and say you would never tell your husband...That alone should answer your question...Yes it is adultery. Anything done behind your partner's back is an action that will betray the trust he has in you and hurt the relationship. Put yourself in his shoes. What if he just ate someone out with out telling you. How would you feel?
     
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    Troll post.
     
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    Any form of lying involving another person
    is cheating in my opinion

    Oh and btw its spelt neighboUr, not neighbor

    !
     
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    If you think it's cheating, then it is. :)

    I'm starting to agree with y'all that this is a troll post.
     
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    The American spelling is neighbor....with no u. :)
     
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    He must be circumcised then. :)

    On topic, yes it's cheating. And sucking him off to pay him back for helping is prostitution, isn't it? Do you have an open relationship with your husband?
     
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    You got to be freaking kidding me.....I do smell a troll! Puss I do believe that is the first time I have ever seen anyone from europe use Southern slang "ya'll"!! I love it!!! Very very sexy!!!
     
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    I am ashamed to say that it took me over 15 seconds to get that joke. :(
     
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    I'm not actually "from" Europe, just living/working here. I was born and raised in Southern California. :)
     
  19. Nachria

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    Ya, thats cheating, and why do you want to hook up with a looser like that?
     
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    I say "Y'all" all the time... but it doesn't usually go down well over here... Oh to be back in the states :p