Hey there all! I am needing some advice or maybe some encouragement...here's my story: Been married for a little over 5 years. Husband and I separated in April because we just weren't compatible any more and also after he met someone online and moved to be with her. I met someone new at the end of June. We got to know eachother and we've really hit it off. So now, I have a few questions.... 1. My new guy has two daughters by two women...from 3 & 6 years ago. Does this make him a "risk"? The first time we had sex, it was unprotected...neither of us thought of it, we were too caught up...I just don't want to end up being "another one".... 2. Am I horrible for still being married (I can't file for divorce until Sept. - have to establish residency in this state) and having sex with my new man? 3. Because my marriage was on the rocks with my husband looking online for others, our sex life was also on the rocks. Now that I have this new man who obviously has some experience (2 daughters), I'm worried I'm not as good as I could or should be because of lack of experience. I guess I'm just nervous...it's a new relationship and a new thing for me to be with someone other than my husband. Is it normal to be this nervous and so unsure of myself?? Any advice or suggestions??