Ladies, my wife has recently told me more about her sexual past and for some crazy reason (probably insecurity) I am having a hard time with it. With that said I would really like to hear if other woman have done some of the same things in their past to make me feel my wife is not so different. She lost her virginity at 14 to a guy she thought she wanted to date, ok whatever. at 15 she started seeing a much older guy (21)that worked for her step dad. That lasted till she got pregnant at 18. She comes from a broken home and daddy passed away when she was 13 so I can sort of understand her looking for male attention. When she was 19 she was dating another guy and the relationship was not so good after a while, they broke up on several occasions. From 19 till when she left for college september when she was 20 she slept with 4 other guys while she was broken up with him. These were all guys from the local bar where she hungout. She slept with 2 of them only twice she said she likes them but it did not work out and 1 of them was longer, 1 was a 1 night stand. In college she was with 1 guy but said she did not really like him but stayed with him during. When I met her she was down south working for the summer as I was and she slept with a guy I knew there (twice). She has told me she has never really enjoyed sex and it might be due to the fact a guy she knew forced himself on her when she was just under 15. I asked then why sleep around which she says it was for attention. I am having a super hard time understanding that and she also never made any guy wear a condom. Its like she had no self respect and did not care what happened. Its really bothersome! Let me tell you, she is a super woman today so I KNOW I should let it go and move on BUT I am ahving the hardest time. AND I am no saint by any means so I should not be such a hypocrite but I cant help it. Its like I am resentful for her not telling me 10 years ago and I am only focussing on the bad in her. Ladies please help me see that she is not so un-usual and other have been through similar situations. She really is a good woman and I dont want to make her suffer more for my lack of understanding... Yes I have posted about this topic under a different context in the general postings side before!