I haven't been on a date in almost 4 years, am still a virgin, and this is because I had so many relationships up to the point of my "haiatus" where the girl either cheated or was just looking to play with me, and not in the good way. I just got sick of the mind games. recently I met a rather stunning girl, she was a bit younger than me but absolutely jaw-dropping. We talked and texted for a week, sent pics quite a lot to each other and she kept telling me all these things she wanted me to do to her. I finally asked her out on a date and she was all for it and wanted to come back to my place after. But a few hours before the date she flaked out with the lame ass excuse that "we were going to quickly and now she is having second thoughts" . Other than taking her out, the going to my apartment thing was her idea! I'm just tired of the head games involved with this, I'm 26 and consider myself fairly mature, and since high school it seems no matter what girl I try to date they are always playing around or cheating on me. Is there something wrong with me??