My girlfriend had a bad break of her ankle when falling off a horse just over 2 weeks ago. It required surgery, tons of pain meds, etc. She stayed at her mom's up until yesterday. During that time, everything changed in the sense that we had a lot less privacy, and almost no fooling around, and most of the time together was helping her do something, be it shower or whatever else. we WERE able to fool around a couple of times, and everything went fine. Yesterday she moved back to her place, and i had trouble staying aroused when we went to have sex. basically i just feel like my body isn't in a "sexual mode" after all this stuff. i'm not sure what we need to do to get back into everything. i still am "attracted" to her, and emotionally we're as close as ever after all this. we tried having sex again this morning, and i just started thinking about last night and ran into more trouble. i know it's easy to say "don't think about it," but it's more the two weeks of having the focus of our relationship not be sexual, and i'm not sure how to turn it around. she still does have a cast on, which comes of friday, and then she'll hav a cast she can take on and off to shower, etc. i feel like maybe once that's off i will feel like we are getting "back" to the normal relationship? i'd be open to hearing any suggestions.