Ok here is the question. Put yourself in this situation. What would you do? Awhile back my SO let me know that she often thinks about being with other women. Of course my initial reaction was both shock and excitement. We went back and forth about the possibility of a threesome. We were both sort of uncomfortable with it so we just kind of let it go(which I think was the best choice). However, now I get these feelings like I am holding her back from something she really wants to experience. She looks at girls and tells me how pretty they are (exciting for me), we both love to watch lesbian porn, while surfing a common porn site we watch, I found that she had been watching lesbian porn while masturbating and she admits to dreaming about being with women. My question here is what do I do? Do I let her go experience this without me? I mean I am seriously at a loss here. I am really in need of some help I have been dealing with this for a long time now. I do not want to hold her back sexually. I am just going back and forth on if i would be completely comfortable with this anyway. I would be ok if I could be there but I know I would not be if I wasn't. Any insight from anyone would be helpful. Thanks!