Hi all I got something to ask need an opinion, and I'll try and make it short and to the point. First off I'm Bi and been that way since I was 15 y/o, when I first did the girl girl thing. I don't discuss much of that side of me in my r/t life, in fact my new b/f of a few weeks doest know it yet. Or my parents also, I'd probably get disowned or killed if they ever knew. When I feel comfortable and get to know certain people I hang with, I let them in on it at the right place and time. Now getting to what I'm trying to get across here. plain and simple and quick. When I'm having sex making it with my g/f, both of our orgasms are extreme breathless multiple ones, awesome is more like it and we both know it! We take our time in doing each other gently and slowly exploring our bodies, paying extra attention to certain things as only a girl knows how to do to another. We know how to bring each other off, and love it. Hope you can understand? And when I'm doing it with my new b/f, the best I can say is he gets me off some, but not the same type of rush that I enjoy or need to get me over that edge. I try and explain to him in detail what I like done, and where I feel it that counts. He starts out the way I ask him to, then minutes later ends up doing it his way, and sometimes he cums first leaving me hanging, and I have to finish myself off afterwards. Don't get me wrong here, I'm not lez or becoming one, or that my priorities are messed up or cause of my age, I still love sex with guys as well as with my g/f. My last b/f was outstanding in bed we were in sync climaxing together everytime , only thing wrong with him was he had this major bad attitude prob with a drug thing he got into, I couldn't cope with that sorta stuff! .. sorry no way! I really like this new guy alot he's all that, cute and fun to be with and more, only thing is the sex could be better, and that part is definite need I think. Like I said I've only known him for just a few weeks, hate to loose him. Any ideas on what I'm talking about here? Anyone relate to this? I'm trying to have the best of two things, is it possible or not? BTW I'm new here, and I had a tough time of it surfin the web for a sexual q/a site, not to many that caught my eye. Hope this site works out, I'm still checking things out here and a couple other places I've yet to try. Thanks ahead of time for your replies, whatever they are.