Need Some Fresh Ideas

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by redhotlobster, Feb 17, 2013.

  1. So my man is leaving for boot camp in a week and I am obviously gonna have to go solo for sex for awhile. I need some inspiration for making my time alone hotter. Any ideas? (;
     
  2. EarthboundEnigma

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    If you guys had more time I'd suggest a clone-a-willy kit.(Look it up!) But if it's just you by yourself I'd try to keep in mind that sex should be a full body experience, even for someone who is alone. Don't be afraid to experiment with oils or scented candles or anything else for that matter.
     
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    Hi Redhot what branch?

    Plus it will go by so fast he will be home before you know it.
     
  4. Army. I wish I had a dildo of him. That'd be perfect! (;
     
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    listen to music and touch yourself to the beat of it...
     
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    I like to "shop" the house cuz you never know what might tickle your hot spots. That's how I found out that I like bottles better than purchased dildos. Plus, your home probably has all sorts of nipple tickling and pinching things just waiting to be discovered. And the variety of things you can swat/spank yourself with is pretty good. And then you'll be able to talk to him eventually about all the kinky things you did with your household items, and he may want to try them on you. That would make for a fun reunion!
     
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    This thread is making me horny
     
  8. He has told me that he doesn't want me to wait anymore because he said that we might never get back together.
    But thanks for your help! I'm going to need solo sex now for sure.
     
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    Training, self training for different things.

    You could work with yourself to achieve stronger/longer/mulitple orgasms. Learn to push the threshold beyond what your body tells you-you should. This may be difficult by yourself as it helps to have a partner to force you beyond, but it's a thought. It's a matter of build up, denial, build up, denial, until you can longer deny your self, then pushing for more orgasms by getting beyond the fact that you are entirely too sensitive at this point.

    If you don't own one, purchase a Hitachi Magic Wand. It's a perfect tool for this or hell just for fooling around. You'll thank me later.

    Erotic audio books. The wife loves them. It seems women are more in tune to having their "porn" read to them so they can visualize, have a connection to the characters, etc. She of course started with 50 Shades, but has moved on to other more "descriptive" stories. I never knew there were so many out there.

    Maybe you've been wondering about mastering anal sex but haven't really tried. Here's a perfect opportunity. Buy some differing sizes in butt plugs. Start off small, go larger, have fun, and the next thing you know the idea of anal sex isn't painful but blissful.

    You could practice deep throating.

    Perhaps you could work on accepting differing degrees of pleasureful pain through self flagellation or nipple play if this interests you.

    Perhaps you could keep him abreast of your challenges and triumphs during this time and then be able to show him when you do get back together.

    Note on the Hitachi, which I recommend to any woman and to any couple out there. It comes with only two speeds; "damn that feels good and damn that feels too good" I would suggest purchasing a simple lamp dimmer switch that allows you to control the speed better, many women cannot handle the sensation without practice and it can induce a numbing from over stimulation. You can find the best prices for one and most any other toy on amazon.
     
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    So then are you broken up? I ask because I wasn't sure what not wanting to wait any longer referred to.

    And Anotherday...do you have any tips on quieting the Hitachi? I hate mine because of the noise. It's been in a very long time out in my closet, and I do not miss it.

    And to clarify, I don't really care if my roommate hears it; it's me that can't stand to listen to it.
     
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    ear plugs? I really don't know, it's a hell of a machine. It's powerful enough to use as an actual massager too. We limit how much we use it here, don't want to make my dick too much of an after thought you know.
     
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    Wow he hit you with that out of the blue?
     
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    Watch porn and see some solo women satisfying herself. Don't forget to use toys, they are really helpful.